Join Date: Apr 2017
Posts: 291
I appreciate this reply, answer20, because you struck on the vague uncertainty I had about 3betting with a wider range in live 1/2.
Online at 16NL, a 3bet pot is usually heads-up, and if it's not on the flop it usually is on the turn. Also, there aren't many new players who are apt to take it "personally". At live 1/2, rec players and OMC's or just people with a chip on their shoulder can react strangely to 3bets - especially once you show AJs. Or, as you point out, they might backraise too liberally. And because of all the calling and passive play, there chance is bigger for more people to be involved, and the weirdness escalates.
One thing I've learned this year playing online is that it's really about ranges. So if OMC is backraising light to "teach me a lesson" or 2 passive regs call my 3bet, it's really about position and whether I'm ahead of them or not and have decent postflop skills (which to be honest are better than last year meaning I'm more confident on the turn but I can still get lost on the river). On the other hand, deepstacked at 16NL if I make a mistake might cost me $40, whereas live 1/2 that's a much bigger number.
Also, you mentioned "table captain". Not my goal, but it did remind of the emotions that you have to deal with live which you can ignore online. I have no desire to get the whole table against me, which is a factor.