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Originally Posted by mmac900
I agree and it's just obvious that everyone plays to win money, which is what ive been trying to say to idiots like Combat, but he is beyond help.
Also, I want to encourage the guy because hes having a hard time financially, why do you have to bring him down? I bet hes better at poker then you.
You can do it OP!
In several months from now you will probably look back and realize how wrong you are.
People "care" about winning money when they play poker, that's true. But that doesn't necesarely mean that it should be your main goal to make. What good players really strive for is to become better players everyday and make better decisions, money is just something that comes by itself once you become a great player.
What Combat is trying to emphasize here is that if your only purpose in poker is to make money, your results will be much worse than if you were more focused in learning and becoming better everyday because you are seeking success for the wrong reasons. A lot of people feel devastated when they don't reach their weekly/monthly/yearly goal and they forget about all the knowledge that they accumulated during that time, so instead of keeping striving towards improvement they just end up either giving up or going on life-tilt which hurts their game.
As for bringing OP down with our comments, we are not trying to do that, it's actually the other way around. We are telling him that from our point of view he might not be able to do this and save him the time and effort before he makes a mistake that he could regret.
If someone comes asking if they can go pro because they made 4k at the casino and blah blah blah, the most honest thing we could do is tell that person what the reality of going pro is about, we are not supposed to be like our moms and tell them that they can do whatever they want as long as they believe in themselves etc, etc.
Making money is good, but it certainly should not be your only motivation to achieve your goals, a person learns how to paint because they love their art, not because they want to earn 1k/weekly by selling paints, their love for art is what keeps them improving and money is just something that they earn by just becoming better.