I've heard the statement of "find what you love and then figure out how to make money from it" since I was a kid.
But at some point, I started to realize that this is probably not a very good strategy and it is also not very realistic:
Firstly, our ideas of what we might find fulfilling are very inaccurate and tend to follow societal pressures/tendencies. We are basing our plans not only on incomplete information, but more importantly, on skewed and inaccurate perceptions. We have a tendency to look at the famous examples, and ignore the rest of the average masses (in part because no one ever thinks they are "average")
Secondly, a lot of things that are fun to do end up being cumbersome and annoying when you have to do them 8 hours per day, 5 days per week, 50 weeks per year - for years on end. I noticed that there are many things I love to do as a hobby, but would hate to do as a job when I realized what it takes to do that job.
Thirdly, I have a feeling that a lot of satisfaction comes from variety of tasks and variety of pursuits. If you do the same thing every day, no matter how great, it will get mundane and boring. It will be just another job as you try to put in the hours. Variety of tasks and projects is important.
Fourthly, interests naturally change over time. As you grow older, you discover yourself. What gave you satisfaction before, may give you boredom in the future. Even if you knew exactly what career is right for you right now, by the time you get to your goal your interests are likely to change.
Lastly, my impression is that there is a higher correlation between happiness and finances and time than career track. There is definitely a sweet spot for this. Many people work very lame jobs but get enough money and time to enjoy their lives as they please.
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Originally Posted by dalerobk2
I find it quite shocking that people can't manage to find a job that they both enjoy and make reasonable money.
I think ultimately, happiness is very internal. Some people seem to be happy regardless of how ****ty everything is going for them. And other people seem to be very unhappy regardless of how awesome everything is going for them. Your career choice has little to do with it. Having the time and money to do what you want with people you want is much more important. As long as you pick a job with a bit of variety, it's probably not a big factor for your happiness.