I'm usually long-winded in these types of posts, but I'll add my 2 cents.
Financial :
Save 10% of your income no matter what. You can spend the rest if you have to, but if you can't afford to live your lifestyle with saving 10% from your paycheck every time you get it, then you are living above your means. 10% is nothing, and the numbers don't mean much now, but if you take the numbers yearly and multiply it by 5-8 years, you'll be in your 30s and realize you have a nice chunk to do something with. Whether that is buy a house or invest, it's up to you, but at least you have it. I screwed up many things but at least I had my 401k when I was 30 and did something with it.
If you're going to take chances investing young, then do it in your 20s. You won't be firing in on crap shoots when you get older because you have too much to lose.
Personal :
Remember the most important thing in life, unless you make less than enough to live normally, are personal relationships. Investing time into a good personal relationship with your significant other reaps more rewards than people will ever admit. I'm not one to say "money isn't important", because it is up to a point, but personal relationships are what actually make you happy. You know which relationships (friends or significant other) are good for you. Keep them.
Be more self-reflective. In every instance where something didn't work out the way you wanted it to, ask yourself if you were to blame. This applies to both professional and personal. Find the leak, fix it. You reap what you sow, and perception is reality in more cases than you think. (This might actually be the most important of all the things I've listed because it's actually self-improvement.)
In almost every instance, sleep with every woman who wants to sleep with you. When you are older and don't sleep around anymore, the only thing you have are your memories. I don't regret any women I slept with, only the ones I didn't because I don't know how they were in bed. Obviously, do it safely.
Never, ever,
ever believe a girl who says she can't get pregnant. Doctors are wrong too.
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Originally Posted by dc_publius
That's because marriage is going to be one of the best things you end up doing in your life, and vast majority of people find having kids to be one of the most rewarding things of their lives.
As for marriage, each person must make his own decision. Chasing a career and emphasizing income can put personal relationships on hold, but if you find a good mate young, then so be it. Don't throw it away because you "don't have time". You have time, you just have to decide which items on your list are most important to you.
If there is a trait in your mate that is an issue, it won't change after you're married, and you won't be able to change it. You have been warned. If she's selfish or a hoe, she still will be 10 years later.
Marriage was something I never wanted until I was 35, and even then I was a bit reluctant. In fact, marriage itself wasn't that big of a deal. When my daughter arrived, it changed every way I felt about everything in the world. I'm well aware how ridiculous that last statement was, but it's truly something you can't understand until you've gone through it.
It's also something that will make you realize you're mortal.