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Originally Posted by ThinkItThrough
Finally something practical, that's not hot air. Now double that for single moms who already have one child.
Triple it for certain neighborhoods. Now you have to find some marketing meme like UBI and promote it bc in this form for sure it can't be sold to the public. This here will at least have a real impact.
You can't target it like that. A significant amount of the social benefit is gone when they already have one kid, so the payout needs to be at its highest when they are childless. You can't target by neighborhood because inevitably you'll hit some minority neighborhoods super hard and look like (and probably actually be) a racist. Can't sell that, and honestly wouldn't really want to.
I'm even somewhat ok with the reverse where if you have a child and don't pay a 10k tax we sterilize you and take the kid into state custody. It's long past time to stop pretending that society doesn't have a stake in reproductive decisions. We're spending astronomical amounts of money on poor children with very bad returns generally.
Children who grow up in poverty generally grow up to be poor people. I grew up poor and this is a list of things I had no idea how to do at 18:
1. Brush my teeth. Seriously it still requires conscious effort to remember to brush my teeth. My wife was raised similarly and between us we've managed to spend 5 figures on dentistry over the last couple of years.
2. Clean up after myself. I'm a lot better about it now, but I grew up in squalor (we had roaches because of the rotting food on the floor, nothing had been cleaned ever, there was caked grime on nearly everything) and honestly had no idea why being clean was necessarily better than being dirty. To this day my tolerance level for slobbery is way too high.
3. Be on time. I was late to literally everything growing up. Now I'm compulsively on time and being late is incredibly triggering. I was late to a lot of jobs in the early part of my career and it created conflict. I finally realized that being late generally means one or more people have to wait around for you wasting their time. Not ok.
4. Work hard. I eventually realized that my actions and my circumstances were linked, but that was something I learned on my own. This literally ruined my educational career. Without being able to see tangible benefits from doing the work it was basically impossible to be motivated. I'm extremely motivated by money, but less tangible benefits are still hard to be motivated for.
5. Cook. I spent most of my disposable money on eating out because eating at home meant TV Dinners which are disgusting and reminded me far too much of my childhood. This has resulted in my struggling with obesity for my entire life.
And so very much more. The reality is that poor people are often poor because their parents did a truly terrible job of teaching them what they needed to know to be successful adults... Which they then pass on to their children. In a society with plenty of opportunities poverty should probably be treated as a disease that needs to be cured rather than just a lack of money or opportunity.
I'm not trying to speak for all poor people here. There's a real difference between poor people who are grinding their way out of poverty and those who aren't. Those who are progressing need (and deserve!) vast amounts of support to cure what they usually acquired through no fault of their own. Those who aren't improving should probably be treated as though they have some kind of horrific hereditary disease that needs to be contained.
Last edited by BoredSocial; 08-16-2017 at 01:16 PM.