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Originally Posted by MeleaB
It should be obvious who it's directed at.
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Out of interest, for those not willing to help their friend/colleague from being scammed for potentially thousands, due to some selfish "-EV" calculation, would you also turn your back if someone you knew was, say, being mugged because you might get physically hurt? Is it more the case that you're scared or selfish that you wouldn't help?
I can't fathom how someone could be "genuinely concerned that she could lose a ton of money" yet do nothing to help.
I assumed it was directed at Tooth due to his troubling comments about women, but snowie seems to think I want to pursue this woman romantically so I wouldn't have been surprised if you were talking to me lol.
I disagree with your characterization that I'm unwilling to help a friend/colleague out due to selfish motives. I've already made it very clear that I wouldn't hesitate to share my true feelings about Darren Winters with close friends or family. Hell, If I was shooting the **** with someone at a bar about investing I probably wouldn't hold anything back either.
I don't understand how you don't realize that our professional relationship of only two weeks muddies the situation. She's not my boss, but she has seniority over me, I've only been with the company for 2.5 weeks, and I barely know her. Sorry for having some self preservation instincts when it comes to my new job lol.
If I knew this person for 6+ months and thought they trusted me I probably would share my true thoughts.
"Would you also turn your back if someone you knew was, say, being mugged because you might get physically hurt? Is it more the case that you're scared or selfish that you wouldn't help?"
I would absolutely turn my back and run if I saw someone I know getting mugged at knife/gun point. I'm not risking my life to protect someone I know from losing at most a few hundred dollars, a nice leather wallet, and their phone. Are you insane? My instinct would probably be to intervene/protect them, but that's clearly the foolish thing to do. You could escalate the situation and quickly turn a robbery into a double homicide.