I have the opposite experience to yours and Abbaddabba's claims. And the
research backs me up. Increasing wealth and success is strongly correlated with being confrontational, thriving on conflict, aggression and lower and lower empathy. There's a reason we're finding out that half of Hollywood and politics is raping people. Wealth and success are correlated with narcissism and very low empathy.
That successful people are charming to those where it benefits them to be seen as such, is of course standard. If you met me in person you'd find me likeable.
There's not much for me here in trading wisdom so if I can't be a "douchebag", to quote you, I post a lot less. That's the tradeoff. You've stated your preference, and I'm happy to respect it.
Another amazing trader recently banned is cicakman. Guy has posted at least 7 5+ bagger trades (figure that compounded), and rarely gets it wrong. He told a mod to eat a dick and got a perma for it. He now shares his 5+ baggers privately with some 2p2ers.
Personally I think the real damage done in this forum is the unbridled hysteria by the bitcoin posters. People have a real chance of losing their life savings because of posters in this forum advocating 100% in and no risk. That's a lot worse than being called a cuck. Not your problem, but if we're talking about real world harm, that takes the cake over putdowns and salty language.
Anyway, this is a nice forum, I think the best stock forum on the web by a wide margin, and I think it'll improve again once the market becomes livelier, and there's real strategy to discuss. We're at the top of a long bull without much volatility and no real bargains or killer trades