I started this thread so I feel like I have some responsibility to reply and clarify some of my points.
My original intention when writing this post was not to call out standard backing or the winner of the sunday milly. I wanted to point out some of the hipocrisy of what creates outrage in the community and what does not. I wanted to make sure that I got the details correct and in my focus on that I missed relaying my original purpose of the thread.
While Tom Dwan's Durr challange, or Alec Torelli's Angle Shooting will Dominate NVG for weeks or months the truth is tha 99.9999% of us will never have the opportunity to participate in the Durr challange and 99.95% of us will never sit in a cash game with Alec. But almost all of us if we play tournament online and will face ghosting by backed or staked players. While it might feel great to call out poker celebrities it doesn't really protect the community from cheating.
Much of the tone of this thread was "get over it! there is no way to stop it so you better just accept it." I really don't agree with this kind of thinking. While I have achieved a certain level of acceptance in regards to this issue it does not mean that we shouldn't be bring to light instances where ghosting may be occurring and ask for stables and backers to have more transparency. While I admit it may be in vain some pressure is better than no pressure. We can also make it aware to people who are going to be taking staking from stable that these same stables may work against them when the are no longer backed. If we continue bring this topic to the forefront we may also put pressure on the sites to do more to punish cheaters in the future.
Also many stated that poker sites don't care about ghosting, that they just want our rake and as long as games are running they are not going to do anything about it. I am not in total agreement with this. it would be very short sited of these sites to not address ghosting and bots. If no oversight where to occur eventually the online poker economy would collapse. As soon as the perception of an edge vanishes the recreational players will leave (look at DFS if you need an example). Eventually we will have a competition between stables and AI and we all know who will win that battle(large human armies vs intellectually superior technology, Skynet anyone). Poker sites need to maintain an appearance of fair play in order survive.
We have also discussed the implementation of new technologies in order to reduce cheating. This is really the most important aspect of this conversation to consider. What level of monitoring would we be accept in order to increase the amount of fair play. This really needs to be a thread all on its own. I would like to here more from the community about this.
Like I said in the OP I have been a lurker for years and just dipped my toe in the NVG waters. I found it can be quite toxic as I was constantly defending myself in my head for days on end and creating arguments and counterpoints. I hope that I have unburdened myself and that I can move on.