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Originally Posted by juan valdez
lets also keep in perspective that actresses make up a tiny portion of the people employed in hollywood. when i say "non victims" im not just talking about actresses
You would be wrong to assume that actresses or in fact women are the only people being subjected to this kind of behavior, or the victim blaming. Look at what happened to Cory Feldman, and at Barbra Walter's response when he talked about it.
When I was in the early stage of my career in film at about 22 years old I was harassed by a senior crew member. I was groped on several occasions. Butt grab and crotch grab type stuff, but also line crossers like sticking a wet finger in my ear when I was at my desk with my back to the room. When I told him to stop it he acted like I was making a big deal about nothing. When I complained to my boss it was laughed off and I was told to man up. It only ended when I gave the groper's wrist a long hard squeeze and told him to keep his hands to himself. (I was a six-foot-two farm boy; the "or else" was seriously implied.) I was never hired by any of those people again.
I was also hit on a few times by male actors and producers, but only in the way people hit on other people, the way you or I might talk to someone we were attracted to. I never felt like my carrer was involved in my response but who knows. As Mr Skalansky says, "It should be noted that some "non victims" are actually victims and vice versa. The unwilling, the unpretty, and sometimes the unfemale, were victims when they were passed over for someone not as competent." I may have lost opportunities I didn't even know I had. I know I didn't get jobs I thought I should have, and I know that people of questionable abilities did get some of those jobs.
Last edited by 2pairsof2s; 10-19-2017 at 02:37 PM.