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Originally Posted by U shove i call
No one knows if you cheated or not but we all know how shady this makes you look. Saying that the people who owe you should pay up as there is no proof just hearsay.
I've reread the last sentence a few times and still can't make sense of it. I think you must have meant something other than hearsay. And isn't saying that people who owe you money should pay you just...common sense?
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Originally Posted by MGMDonk
I do feel for op, but I think this is just another harsh lesson on the perils of not immediately collecting otherwise unsecured debt.
OK, fair enough then I suppose. But it's not like this is something we don't all know already, and I'm sure everyone who plays on apps like this with arrangements to settle afterwards know the huge risk involved. At least I hope they do. Risk is weighed against reward, and sometimes they come out on the short end of the stick.
And while I'm not saying I disagree with you, the fact that someone isn't payed what they were owed doesn't mean, in and of itself, it was a bad risk. If, for example, you have a big enough edge in a game or bet that you think it's still +EV in spite of, for example, a 25% chance you'll never get paid, then it's fully expected that you're going to get screwed quite often, but still come out ahead.
I think that's something that's easy to miss when these stories come out. It's easy to sit back afterwards and say the person should have known better, because after we read several of these stories we conclude that gamblers are all degens and everyone gets screwed all the time. What we forget is that we're never going to hear about the countless times people get involved in bets like this and
do get paid.
I'm not saying that OP's gamble was +EV overall - I have no idea. But hindsight is always 20/20.