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Originally Posted by DumbosTrunk
Friends share a common interest in helping each other. Poker is inherently selfish and dog eat dog so not exactly the best place to make friends in an environment where the goal is to make each other worse off financially. That’s why I find pros who go out of their way to be friendly with whales to be extremely dishonest, conniving, and low on the character totem pole.
I definitely think you have something of a point here, but I feel like there's a bit more nuance to be had
People who go out of their way to only be friendly to people they can gain something from definitely demonstrate a significant lack of character imo. But look at a guy like Garret Adelstein. All reports indicate he's an absolutely stand-up guy, but he probably also goes out of his way to be friendly with whales. Not in a smarmy, ingratiating kind of way, but in a kind and respectful way, one that seeks to foster the best playing environment for them. I think it takes a certain kind of social intelligence to realize that whales should be treated well because they're the lifeblood of the industry, but it takes a certain kind of emotional intelligence to realize that whales should be treated well as a matter of respect not only to how integral they are to the industry, but because many of them are just decent people who just want to enjoy themselves, and are paying for that privilege