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Originally Posted by Ataman
Regarding number 3, it is relevant. If they fired her, she would have incentive to make Stones look bad out of spite.
I just find it odd that she believes a guy is swindling her and her friends, yet voluntarily continues to help him do it by inviting him to her game for months after. Something just doesn’t add up.
And this whole, “Justin gaslighted me” doesn’t add up either. You’re smart enough to figure out the guy is cheating but fall for Justin duping you? A guy who is clearly not very intelligent. I don’t buy the babe in the woods routine.
I never said it was irrelevant per se, I'm just saying that losing the Stones Live gig doesn't necessarily throw her credibility into question. But you're not wrong: even if it was a $200 per show moonlighting gig, getting ousted from the weekly stream could certainly be the trigger that emboldens her to speak up.
In fact, you can just as easily make the argument that getting "fired" – if that even happened – made Veronica even more certain about the likelihood of impropriety.
As for the gaslighting, well, I don't have a good response for you other than to say that's the nature of gaslighting: it often looks absurd to an outsider, especially when the outsider has more expertise or better information (like we ALL do right now).
And to be clear, such manipulation has little to do with intelligence, but rather the two parties' relative proficiency of the subject at hand**. In this case, Veronica is an amateur poker player. An avid one and an experienced one compared to many, but ultimately an amateur. It doesn't matter if she is 10 times smarter than JFK and Postle combined at every other subject. When it came to poker, she may not have known enough to stand her ground in those discussions. Remember, it took hours and hours of a deep dive by multiple professional players before many of us began looking stink-eyed at Stones Live.
(**e.g. you can imagine a good many MENSA members probably get duped into unnecessary repairs and/or inordinately high rates by their auto mechanics. Meanwhile, this same auto mechanic could very well be prone to being talked into a frivolous procedure by his/her dentist.)