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Originally Posted by Go Get It
I don't know, maybe I wasn't clear, but that example had more to do with people changing their minds on big life issues than abortion... sooo yeah.. sorry if I wasn't clear.
This is a silly comparison. Politicians will of course reflect the views of their constituents or of the voters they covet. It doesn't necessarily imply a major personal conversion when he changes his policy preferences while pursuing a different electorate (Massachusetts general electorate vs. GOP primary voters). Taking a different position publicly does not mean altering, by choice, one's deeply held desires.
I think the whole choice discussion regarding sexuality is kinda weird anyway because it presumes we have a thorough understanding of free will and brain states and how these things interact with other factors. I'd like to know what an operational definition of 'choice' is in this context, by those who argue either side - and it ought to be one that allows for some form of empirical verification, otherwise the debate is sort of meaningless and open-ended. But I think the overwhelming evidence is that the nature of our sexual desires, while not totally immutable, are almost completely out of our control.
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Originally Posted by Go Get It
We just happen to disagree. I mean hell how many people in the east village died last week due to car wrecks? Prolly more than one. Not as if that devalues a baseless killing obv, but again it's way safer to come out as gay in 2013 than it is to drive and that was more my point.
Obv those things will never 100% go away unfortunately.
I think you're really missing the point of why being openly gay in America is difficult. I know others have brought up the possible violence, and that's a part of it, but it's really the mundane, softer forms of bigotry that make something like this courageous. In 2013 it's still a virtual guarantee that a gay person in the US will experience disparate treatment over their sexuality. A lot of it will be mild, and some of it may be unintentional, but it will occur. This stuff has psychic consequences, especially when a significant percent of the population is prejudiced against you and your legal rights are unprotected in many areas. But it's going to be especially true within institutions and communities that are dont have a history of welcoming openly gay members and where some homophobia is tacitly condoned. Knocking down the supposed straw man of rare violence against gays is like saying black Americans have no reason to fear racism since we don't have regular lynchings anymore in this country.