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Originally Posted by Crockett616
Would it be fair to say that you are young and learned the hard way that a lot of people in general are scum, particularly when it comes to money? And you needed education on how the world in general is, not just poker world.
Hopefully you understand that poker players are no different from people in average, in good or bad, and you shouldnt be trusting with anyone when it comes to money. People may be your friends but most like themselves more than you when it comes down to it.
What you say is true.
However the poker world is a bit different. Especially for young guys it can be hard stay strong and not "help "people.
Sometimes you make friends with these charismatic people who are in reality nothing but conman. In the poker world youre guaranteed to run into this kind of person.
You dont end up giving them thousands of dollars right away. Theyre very sophistacated and smart and over time build trust etc. If they cant get money out of you they will steal it. Or building up trust over time offering you a stake when theyre flush or asking for a short term loan and paying back the next day ( this particular example is a tactic often used ) a few times.
It happens alot in the poker world, so many people owe and are owed in the poker world that you cant really say its the same as the real world. But yea one always should draw line when money comes into play. That rule in universal.
The equivalent to staking or loaning to a poker player or doing other buisiness in the real world would be bankrolling a buisiness. I think that in real world everyone would be much more reluctant to say the least and is usually thought through well.
The poker world is full of conman and if youre like me someone who only knew poker from TV and the internet you have a completely wrong picture of what kind of person some of people are.
I know many good guys who did the same mistakes as I.
But youre right its always the type of person who has like me a soft spot and likes to help people. I know people who would never lend money as well. And theyre right, Im one of them now.
Last edited by das_wunderkind; 03-07-2012 at 09:44 AM.