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Originally Posted by Xenoblade
It’s usually the other way around, Doug became the way he is because he got picked on as a kid, bullied people become bullies
I was bullied mercilessly in middle school for having bad acne.
I had zero friends and thought no one would ever like me or touch me the rest of my life
(turns out shaving with a razor was life-changing for me in my late teens, cleared up my skin tremendously)
To this day I dont dare tease or mock anyone since I never want someone else to go thru what I did
I teach high school and I am hyper-sensitive to anyone who teases others in a malicious way
I dont yell at the bully or publicly shame them in the moment,
I take em aside and have a serious talk about my experiences and how awful it is for them to do what they are doing.
It usually works, at least when I see them going forward
"Bullied people become bullies" is one route they take,
but some of us were so scarred from the experience we went the other way
I'm a fan of Doug's content, but the Berkey bashing did get a little out of hand and soured me a little on him.