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Originally Posted by DNegsPR
Listen to the video again, he say he ISN'T looking for a baby mama. You misquote that aspect of the video and its no wonder you leap to incorrect conclusions about what he said. He simply said, he has decided that he wants to have a kid. He said he isn't looking for a baby mama.
Yeah I missheard you Daniel, but the principle is the same. Focusing on having a kid will move you from looking for important things like compatibility (and I don't mean your list even though it's part of it, but more importantly natural attraction, interacting traits etc.) to a goal oriented mindset and "list" thinking, commiting too soon etc.
The Marissa hard breakup her cheating is YOUR responsibility solely, you decided to commit, you decided to stay complacent and just not end it sooner even though it seems you knew ages ago this will not work out eventually and didn't have the chops you act.
The cheating etc. Is just a fluff side symptoms that you should move on from now and stop focusing on such a long time since the breakup.
Seriously check out some advisors out there and you'll see what I mean, they can get you on the right track because right now you seem lost when it comes to that aspect of your life, and at your age figuring it out on your own will take way too many resources and time edit: dint want to mention names because of adverts/getting flak for plugging coaches, but I took almost a year of my life to sort that area of my life out and it's been one of the most important years of my life in terms of overall impact