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Originally Posted by JustBetter89
+1 It's a must read! Well done James Obst
A lot of the Obst article hit home with me, great read..
Copy pasted from the article - “What happens, is this filters down. It’s a shame that in life it seems to require a shocking tragedy for people to gain perspective and stop focusing on themselves for just a moment. The unfortunate reality is that in the poker world there are a LOT of people at the bottom, struggling for money, health, you name it. Seriously, all of the people Brian Hastings casts aside as ‘sociopathic strangers on the internet’ are likely people who have been dealt a worse hand than him in life, are trying desperately to get out but are having difficulty. There are a lot more people doing it hard in this game than there are people at the top with thousands of twitter followers. Many of them emulate the big names – airing their lives and frustrations over social media;
others stay quiet and internalize.”
Hi, my name is Bryan, I’m that guy at the bottom.
Also this ““The point I’m slowly getting at is that these feelings in the less successful, derived from the behavior of the most successful, are absolutely toxic to health. It translates as chronic mental stress. I shudder to guess what the percentage of long-term poker players who have at some stage experienced clinical depression would be – 40%? It could be a lot higher. I would be amazed if another industry had a higher percentage. This is a huge amount of players and unfortunately the culture that has been created by those at the top, of self-adulation and egocentricity is what is destroying poker more than anything else. There’s a reason that good people turn to shady acts like multi-accounting over time – they lose perspective of their values because it seems like no one around them gives a flog about anyone but themselves.
Sorry mods if I’m not supposed to copy paste this please delete my bad.