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Originally Posted by madlex
There's a decent chance that Brandon would think "whatever, my reputation is ruined anyway, why should i pay back anyone at all?"
Well, I'll grant you there's obviously a non-zero chance of that, but if he's a decent guy that intended to pay back, I'd say the chance of that is pretty low if it's handled well. It could be posted about without coming anywhere near ruining his reputation (see the Ditch Digger post below), and paying the money back is always going to help restore one's reputation to some degree.
If you want to try to apply some math to it, I'd say that a post like Ditch Digger suggests would be like a 10-20% hit on a guys reputation (not that you can really quantify such a thing, but I think you'll understand my point); not paying back would be a 100% hit. Definitely incentive to still pay back.
I'm not looking to vilify (Villain has 2 "l"s, but vilify only one? Learn something new every day!) any one particular poster here. I understand the reasons some people might have thought it was better to stay quiet at the time, and it's easy to sit here in hindsight when I wasn't owed any money and tell everyone else what they should've done. But I hope that what's happened here will make people rethink that approach in the future.
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Originally Posted by Ditch Digger
People should've obviously warned about him late paying. A simple "completedonk and I are in the midst of a trade. I've sent him money, waiting for him to ship to me" would've saved people money.
Exactly. Maybe that should be a new standard people use - if you enter into an arrangement with someone, post about it. If everyone did that, it would simply be providing information rather than being accusatory, and others would be aware of one particular person being engaged in a few different deals.
Of course there are going to be times when privacy is going to trump transparency; just keep in mind that as transparency goes down, risk goes up.