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Originally Posted by Gullanian
One story I heard that came from a security guard in one casino, a mans family had been saving for months so they could pool their money together and buy said man a car to help him with getting work.
He decided to go to a casino before buying the car, and lost it all. He was full of so much shame he killed himself at the casino.
I think there are a lot of stories like this, some not ending in suicide but still large levels of pain, more than we probably realise and it's important to recognise the darker side of the business we visit. I've experienced a lot of pain from this game at one point in my life, and, really, it isn't very nice to live with and stays with you for a long time.
There is also a contradictory set of beliefs on these forums:
1. If a fish sits at your table, take him for all he has and don't feel guilty about it, it's your job
2. Money really isn't important
If money isn't important than surely the safety and well being of the losing players on the table should sometimes take precedence over your potential profit line, a word of advice at the table or perhaps a brief chat afterwards wouldn't do anyone any harm if they are clearly damaging themselves beyond their means.
1) Ive never been in a situation where I felt as though a player I was playing with was in acute pain psychically over the money he was losing....If I felt I was TRULY harming someones well-being at a fundamental level....
You damn skippy I would quit him.
2) I have had that type of "let me pull you aside" conversations at the casino with people I probably could profit from ....and I have suggested quitting for the evening/day.
Most of the people I play against in casinos at the stakes I play(2/3--5/10 or low buyin mixes) hardly seem down on their luck. Many in this area seem pretty flush with dough and just looking for a challenge/mental outlet.
I see nothing contradictory in providing that challenge.