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08-02-2021 , 10:27 AM
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Originally Posted by washoe
Read it more carefully, ABC NEWS
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Originally Posted by washoe
Why are discriminating indians? Here is a UK article for you mate: (same thing)


"Dawn of the flexisexual: The new word for the women who refuse to play it straight"
http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/arti...-straight.html
I didn't read it at all. The link takes me to the Hindustan Times. India being a very socially conservative culture and therefore me wondering if this is going to be a balanced piece or some random op-ed you've found from a conservative publication. Especially given your UK link is to The Daily Mail, a conservative rag I'm reluctant to ever read. This is why you're not supposed to spam links and youtube videos as is your wont. You're supposed to explain the relevance and how they support whatever your opinion is.

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Originally Posted by washoe
Did you ever have a relationship with a bi-sexual?
Yes. No. Does it matter? What's your point? Is it that bisexual people are less capable of having a monogamous relationship? Because that's a prejudice on your part that I doubt you can begin to justify.
08-02-2021 , 10:32 AM
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Originally Posted by washoe
Yes, self projection is great. Sometimes we do hurtful things without even knowing.

To bring this back to the topic.

When I think of trans, I automatically think of John "buttman" stagliano and nacho Vidal. Both are adult stars and both engaged in sex with trans. And they both have aids from these encounters. Again, Im just stating facts. I liked all of them, Freddy mercury especially.
Did Nacho actually get HIV from a trans person? What's the relevance if he did? Are you "just stating facts" that trans people get HIV? Because straight people get that too.
08-02-2021 , 10:35 AM
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Originally Posted by Bladesman87
Somewhere in the region of 0 is my estimate.
This!
08-02-2021 , 10:47 AM
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Originally Posted by Ranma4703
Yes, I know plenty.


Here is another great example of transphobia.
Stop using trans as a noun, it's an adjective. Trans people, trans women. What is your purpose in sharing this? You seem to be implying that all trans people have HIV or something?

Freddy Mercury wasn't transgender?

get your **** together washoe, you're acting like an *******
While I've never tripped out on acid, I suspect it's a lot like reading a typical washoe post. I often have no idea what he's trying to say, and I kinda think that he has no idea what he's trying to say, either.
08-02-2021 , 11:00 AM
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Originally Posted by Bladesman87
Did Nacho actually get HIV from a trans person? What's the relevance if he did? Are you "just stating facts" that trans people get HIV? Because straight people get that too.
Well, since this is a thread about transgender I think it should be mentioned.

"Rocco sifredi confirms nacho has hiv, and he thinks he got it from a transexual: (what he says now idk, imo it's damage control)
https://mikesouth.com/hiv/rocco-siff...-is-hiv-38321/

Note that I posted about the hypocracy and bullying of August Ames, who then commuted suicide. She was attacked for refusing to film with nacho Vidal, because he was "cross over performer"
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Originally Posted by washoe
Cliffs:
August Ames, pornographic actress commits suicide after controversial cyber bully attack. Turns out the guy she refused Nacho Vidal had HIV and she was right. (This was not even known at the time of these articles)



http://www.rollingstone.com/culture/...ar-201939/amp/
http://www.thesun.co.uk/news/5083949...ideos-age/amp/
http://www.vice.com/amp/en_ca/articl...ar-august-ames
08-02-2021 , 11:06 AM
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Originally Posted by washoe
Well, since this is a thread about transgender I think it should be mentioned.

"Rocco sifredi confirms nacho has hiv, and he thinks he got it from a transexual: (what he says now idk, imo it's damage control)
https://mikesouth.com/hiv/rocco-siff...-is-hiv-38321/

Note that I posted about the hypocracy and bullying of August Ames, who then commuted suicide. She was attacked for refusing to film with nacho Vidal, because he was "cross over performer"
What point are you trying to make?
08-02-2021 , 11:18 AM
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Originally Posted by washoe
Well, since this is a thread about transgender I think it should be mentioned.
Why? I can save you time in future and say that you don't have to post every random snippet that's tangentially related to a conversation every time you think of one.

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"Rocco sifredi confirms nacho has hiv, and he thinks he got it from a transexual: (what he says now idk, imo it's damage control)
https://mikesouth.com/hiv/rocco-siff...-is-hiv-38321/

Note that I posted about the hypocracy and bullying of August Ames, who then commuted suicide. She was attacked for refusing to film with nacho Vidal, because he was "cross over performer"
Great, so Rocco Siffredi has guessed that's where he got it from.

I'm sure August Ames is a tragic story and online bullying on social media is a big problem. Where I'm still confused is what this has to do with anything being discussed. It comes across as you posting something negative that's slightly trans related for no real reason.
08-02-2021 , 11:24 AM
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Originally Posted by lagtight
What point are you trying to make?
My point is august ames should not have been bullied for refusing nacho.

Read the above article:

"Read carefully what Rocco said about how he thinks Nacho Vidal caught HIV.

“So he took it recently in Colombia where he went, or in Spain where he attends trans no stop, he in his private life only them. Which are top for fantasies, three, four, you and your woman, but they’re too much at risk.

It is very difficult to find trans-negatives, they are positive for everything. Who goes with the trans risks his life. Silvera and other colleagues turn with the trans and earn ten times more than me, but when they send them to do the tests eight out of ten are positive for the diseases.

John Stagliano, a great director, fifteen years ago calls me from Brazil: I am convinced that I caught Hiv. He had himself taken from behind. He told me that it was as if he had looked for him, his woman had committed suicide.

Nacho is a very free person, not part of the American mechanism where gays go with gays and straight men with straight men. He is really the maximum expression of what I call ‘all sex’, hangs out everywhere. He’s a huge hetero with women, but he can also be a huge gay with gays”.
08-02-2021 , 01:04 PM
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Originally Posted by Bladesman87
Sounds like Rocco is guessing at where Nacho got it from and that the risk is more in seeing third world prostitutes than trans people. Thanks for bringing up this totally irrelevant avenue.
Yeah. I really, really don't see why this is relevant to the discussion.
08-02-2021 , 01:35 PM
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Originally Posted by Rococo
Yeah. I really, really don't see why this is relevant to the discussion.
I agree that it is not relevant for this discussion. Sorry for derail.

Im still angry at the porn industry, especially how they deal with "cross over" performers.
August Ames is dead you know? And she is dead because she stuck to her principles, principles which should have been accepted. And an angry mob of lgtb advocates lead on that mob that caused it all. So called political correctness was the cause there.

I Have to agree that my posts might have been harmful for trans people and maybe should be removed.
08-02-2021 , 01:46 PM
Sometimes one forgets that they're on the internet, but I can officially say this is the first time I've read a sentence beginning with, "I'm still angry at the porn industry..."

I clearly don't hang out on the right websites.

What is a cross over performer, and what did the industry do to draw your anger?
08-02-2021 , 01:47 PM
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Originally Posted by washoe
I agree that it is not relevant for this discussion. Sorry for derail.

Im still angry at the porn industry, especially how they deal with "cross over" performers.
August Ames is dead you know? And she is dead because she stuck to her principles, principles which should have been accepted. And an angry mob of lgtb advocates lead on that mob that caused it all. So called political correctness was the cause there.

I Have to agree that my posts might have been harmful for trans people and maybe should be removed.
Was it actually lgbt advocates or just a bunch of mentally ill internet dwellers hiding behind the group looking to get high off of causing pain towards others? If they were legit folks then yes, **** em.
08-02-2021 , 02:05 PM
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Originally Posted by Inso0
Sometimes one forgets that they're on the internet, but I can officially say this is the first time I've read a sentence beginning with, "I'm still angry at the porn industry..."

I clearly don't hang out on the right websites.

What is a cross over performer, and what did the industry do to draw your anger?
A cross over performer is an adult actor who performs in straight adult movies as well as in trans adult movies.
What they don't tell you is, apparently starring in trans adult movies is a bit like russian roulette.

What drew my anger? It's simple. August Ames refused to shoot with someone who is a cross over performer. Something that many people agree with, and she wasn't the first one refusing this for safety reasons.
But she did it publicly on social media. She was naive and thought this is the most logical thing she can do and everyone would understand it.

It turned out that she was attacked by numerous people saying she was homophobic. In reality she wasn't. She was legit concerned about her health. Well, she got destroyed for this, even by some other adult stars. Shame on them, honestly. She committed suicide shortly after. All her peers said it was this mob that destroyed her.
08-02-2021 , 02:12 PM
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Originally Posted by formula72
Was it actually lgbt advocates or just a bunch of mentally ill internet dwellers hiding behind the group looking to get high off of causing pain towards others? If they were legit folks then yes, **** em.
They thought they were lgtb advocate. Im not sure if they still think that or if they reconsidered their position.
They were legit folks, some big names from that industry. They all ganged up on her infuriated that she is being homophobic. In reality she was only aware of the risks. Sad thing is she was right in the end. That guy she didn't want to perform with apparently had it.

https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/August_Ames

Last edited by washoe; 08-02-2021 at 02:34 PM.
08-02-2021 , 09:06 PM
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Originally Posted by Bobo Fett
Holy ****, washoe...might be time to take a break from this thread.

Meanwhile, the next chapter in the Laurel Hubbard story has been written:

https://www.cbc.ca/sports/olympics/s...pian-1.6126764
Didnt realize how bad it was, yes. Sorry Ranma, sorry everyone.
08-03-2021 , 10:33 AM
I want say that I almost regret bringing this up, my intention is not harm or offend anyone, but to state facts as this is not commonly known. If I want to inform you of anything, then of these conditions. The porn industry has many problems, this one involves trans and gay people. This has almost nothing to do with regular gay or trans people, more with the industry itself.

Cuepee, you are welcome, now nobody is calling you a homophobic anymore, which I thought was completely ridiculous, because you are not.
Im not homophobic either, but might have made myself a the target now. I deal and make friends with gay and trans people, having no problems whatsoever.

But lets look at this incredible data:

"1 in 5 gay, bisexual men in U.S. cities has HIV" many do not even know of their condition. Which I find rather frightening. I am for more testing and awarness of this to prevent more spreading.
https://www.reuters.com/article/us-a...68M3H220100923

"Sex Worker Jacen Zhu on Meth, HIV, and Racism in Gay Porn"
https://marksking.com/my-fabulous-di...ker-jacen-zhu/

"roughly half were among men who work in gay films, and the other half were men and women working in heterosexual productions" and its not even close, bladesman, as there are way more performers in the straight category.https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sexual...raphy_industry


Read carefully what ex performers say about the industry. Scroll down and you can read testimonies about their experiences and the risks they took.
https://fightthenewdrug.org/3-male-p...es-doing-porn/

There are just too many positives in that sector, these are just a few examples.
https://www.gaytimes.co.uk/life/gay-...owerful-video/
https://www.buzzfeednews.com/article...et-cdc-reports

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Originally Posted by Bladesman87
Crossover also refers to men who do gay as well as straight scenes. August Ames didn't even refuse the scene because the man had done a trans scene, and she didn't express a personal preference not to perform with that man, she posted the following tweet:



So nothing to do with trans people anyway, making this even less relevant than previously. If you knew Vidals resume you would not say this. Hint, look at his Filmography, I say this because I noticed that he has a lot of trans movies in there

If you're right that she was referring to Nacho Vidal then he tested positive long after her death and it doesn't even appear from what you've said that he contracted the virus in the adult film industry anyway. Actually, googling it, it's possible that Nacho doesn't even have HIV at all and it was a false positive due to another chronic condition.

The idea that starring in trans movies is like "Russian roulette" is something you can't possibly defend. Yes you can, and everyone with half a brain knows that regular porn is already a bit like russian roulette, gay/trans porn performers are at a superhigh risk, I do not want to derail this thread, so I will post copy your post and put it into antoher thread. It sounds like the type of thing you've read on one of those Reddit links you've posted before. Adult performers in the US are regularly tested and that applies to gay and trans performers. How many HIV outbreaks have their been among trans performers in the US? Too many, half of all hiv cases are from the gay category. Which is telling of course, since there is a ton more actors in the straight scene A lot of shady stuff goes on in that industry but people aren't dropping like flies because they've had sex with a trans person.



August's tweet was explicitly homophobic. I do not think so, not in the slightest, exactly this thinking got her the shitstorm on the internetIt wasn't simply that she'd declined a scene, it was that she suggested that no other women should perform with someone because they'd been in a gay scene. I'm sure she was genuinely concerned for her health but you've done nothing to motivate that she actually held a rational position. Oh, its very rationalWhat she said was on the lines of "I'm not working with a black guy, every chance they'll mug me". It was not, you simply cannot compare that ro being racist, you do not have any clue how dangerous it is for cross over performers, maybe read some of the above links.

What happened next was deeply tragic and a warning about the dangers of social media when the dogpiling occurs. August Ames had lived a troubled life wrought with abuse, suffered deeply from mental health issues, and the last thing she needed was everyone to tell her she's a bad person. Yes, there are several reported death recently in the industry due to mental heatlh

What angers me is the idea that her death is being used to promote the kind of bigotry that "starring in trans adult movies is a bit like russian roulette". Her tweet doesn't become post hoc justified because a performer you say was regularly seeing prostitutes contracted HIV. Her prejudice doesn't become rational due to the tragedy of her death. I would like to inform you of how wrong you are in another thread

August Ames is a very sad story but she isn't even relevant to this discussion and she certainly isn't a warning sign that it's dangerous to be with a bisexual.

Last edited by washoe; 08-03-2021 at 10:48 AM.
08-03-2021 , 10:50 AM
I have excised this thread from the the parent thread.

Please do a bit less rambling, Washoe.
08-03-2021 , 10:53 AM
Thanks TD, and sorry for all this mess. I didnt really want to make you work more after your hike. Hope it was all good. Bladesman is pulling my triggers.
08-03-2021 , 11:01 AM
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Originally Posted by washoe
I want say that I almost regret bringing this up, my intention is not harm or offend anyone, but to state facts as this is not commonly known. If I want to inform you of anything, then of these conditions. The porn industry has many problems, this one involves trans and gay people. This has almost nothing to do with regular gay or trans people, more with the industry itself.

Cuepee, you are welcome, now nobody is calling you a homophobic anymore, which I thought was completely ridiculous, because you are not.
Im not homophobic either, but might have made myself a the target now. I deal and make friends with gay and trans people, having no problems whatsoever.

But lets look at this incredible data:

"1 in 5 gay, bisexual men in U.S. cities has HIV"
https://www.reuters.com/article/us-a...68M3H220100923

"Sex Worker Jacen Zhu on Meth, HIV, and Racism in Gay Porn"
https://marksking.com/my-fabulous-di...ker-jacen-zhu/

"roughly half were among men who work in gay films, and the other half were men and women working in heterosexual productions" and its not even close, bladesman, as there are way more performers in the straight category.https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sexual...raphy_industry


Read carefully what ex performers say about the industry. Scroll down and you can read testimonies about their experiences and the risks they took.
https://fightthenewdrug.org/3-male-p...es-doing-porn/

There are just too many positives in that sector, these are just a few examples.
https://www.gaytimes.co.uk/life/gay-...owerful-video/
https://www.buzzfeednews.com/article...et-cdc-reports
I'm just not going to read any links you don't summarise. I don't just want quotes or for you to say "read this", I want "Here's what I'm arguing and here's how this supports that claim".

Don't condescend to me with "anyone with half a brain" when all you ever seem to do is agree with the last person you listened to. Literally every thread is you capitulating on whatever half-cocked thought you saw a YouTube about. I'll leave the personal stuff at that if you'll do the same.

The adult film industry is very exploitative. It has a lot of problems. It's routine for performers to contract various STIs and that's not a good thing. I'll also accept that performers are at increased risk of HIV. I'll accept that mental health is a huge concern in the industry as is the coercion of performers into situations they don't wish to be in. None of that is in contention.

What was in contention was the risk of performing with trans people, and when pressed on the absurd claim that performing with a trans person is "like Russian roulette" what you've done is spam me with stories about people who have performed in gay scenes. You've even then gone and undermined it further with "regular porn is already a bit like russian roulette". Okay, so it's not that different to regular porn then.

Really, you've brought up an irrelevant topic and then attempted to back it up by talking about something else entirely.
08-03-2021 , 11:17 AM
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Originally Posted by tame_deuces
I have excised this thread from the the parent thread.

Please do a bit less rambling, Washoe.
I disagree. So long as it is in a containment thread, I think a lengthy digression by washoe on this topic could be quite entertaining.
08-03-2021 , 11:20 AM
Well my dispute with it was mostly down to it being brought up as a trans issue so I doubt I have much more to say for now, but if Washoe wants to make this a discussion about the adult film industry then I think there's plenty of interesting stuff under that umbrella.
08-03-2021 , 11:21 AM
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Originally Posted by Bladesman87
Well my dispute with it was mostly down to it being brought up as a trans issue so I doubt I have much more to say for now, but if Washoe wants to make this a discussion about the adult film industry then I think there's plenty of interesting stuff under that umbrella.
Paging Dominic.
08-03-2021 , 11:25 AM
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Originally Posted by washoe

"1 in 5 gay, bisexual men in U.S. cities has HIV" many do not even know of their condition. Which I find rather frightening. I am for more testing and awarness of this to prevent more spreading.
https://www.reuters.com/article/us-a...68M3H220100923
This is a significant number. That's 20%, less than 1% of all Americans population has hiv for reference. Reuters is talking about 'in us cities' , which of course is not a perfect comparison, but still. Imo August Ames was right. It's a known secret that they are at a much higher risk if they work with cross overs.

Last edited by washoe; 08-03-2021 at 11:37 AM.
08-03-2021 , 11:30 AM
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Originally Posted by Bladesman87
Well my dispute with it was mostly down to it being brought up as a trans issue so I doubt I have much more to say for now, but if Washoe wants to make this a discussion about the adult film industry then I think there's plenty of interesting stuff under that umbrella.
I appreciate your concerns and you stepping in. That was a right thing to do. I was a bit out of line which I apologized for to ranma and others. Still don't get how you don't get that none of what August did was homophobic. You wouldn't take the risks yourself in that industry I'm assuming. It would be highly hypocritical if you said you would imo.
08-03-2021 , 11:31 AM
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Originally Posted by Rococo
Paging Dominic.
I don't know what this reference is but yet I'm pretty sure I understand what it means.
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