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Originally Posted by Trolly McTrollson
99.99% of people will call you by whatever name you prefer if you ask them politely. That’s just a nut low basic courtesy that apparently some people don’t think trans people deserve.
Just use whatever pronouns people prefer. It’s. Not. Hard.
As always you are going with your own arguments in your own head.
You are not discussing with me whether or not anyone would call you what you want if you ask and assert a specific form of address. So take your strawman elsewhere.
If the question or topic is 'did you choose your names or nicknames' and I reply 'I did not', you reply 'no one would not call you what you want... it is just courtesy' is a nonsense reply to what I replied to.
I agree if a person asserts than I would use their name. I also KNOW, most people have never asserted despite having given names and numerous nicknames they had zero input in.
There tends to be an organicness in how OTHERS choose a name for you (family, friend, work colleagues and teammates) based on how they perceive you. IT is really 'their' name for you. Most of us allow them that.