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09-03-2022 , 09:34 PM
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Originally Posted by washoe
yeah he tried to defend against homophobic slurs, whatever that means. probably just some anti lgtb folks at the parade. transphobia is a thing I think or there wouldn't be so many trans victims around the world. they have really statistics of being attacked even murdered. maybe not yet a thing that's established in the west well enough but it happens too often unfortunately. I looked it up once and it definitely happens out of ignorance and stupidity, A lot.
Don't know about the world but in the UK women are far more likely to be murdered than someone who is trans.
09-03-2022 , 09:38 PM
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Originally Posted by O.A.F.K.1.1
If you want to have that opinion fine, but in this case its an objectively incorrect one.
You sure like to waste a lot of time and energy, over and over again, arguing about opinions that are different than yours.
09-03-2022 , 09:41 PM
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Originally Posted by Husker
Don't know about the world but in the UK women are far more likely to be murdered than someone who is trans.
Aren't men far likelier to get murdered than women? In the US men are about 4 times as likely to get murdered as women are.
09-03-2022 , 09:53 PM
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Originally Posted by Husker
All I see here is links to universities sports clubs, nothing to do with any sort of competitive sport or even full sized sports teams. I don't know if the confusion here is that you don't understand these aren't sports teams within the university, it's more of a social/ fitness activity. I do see that the Rugby section in that link actually involves a league, but it isn't mixed there are seperate male and female leagues. Looking at the football section it mentions it's 45 minutes of physical activity and then a 15 minute wellbeing session (lol). Basically just be folk kicking a ball about for a bit, not a proper game in anyway.
I believe that is his point, that social/fitness sports have greater overall participation than do truly competitive sports teams.

In the US, there are intra mural sports at universities, even small colleges without competitive teams, where groups of students play against other students from the same school. These are often mixed gender teams. There are also teams of people who work at a company, who play sports (softball is the most common I believe) against teams from other small businesses, or other teams who have the same employer (if it is a large company). These are also usually mixed gender. Sometimes they will have a rule that the same number of each gender must be on each team, so teams with more men won't dominate teams with more women. I don't know anything about the rate of participation in these activities compared with actual professional and collegiate sports where participants receive payment or scholarships and usually have spectators, but I believe these are the kinds of activities Cuepee is speaking of. Not sure if people not in the US or Canada have been understanding what he is referring to.

If I'm incorrect, Cuepee is welcome to correct me.
09-04-2022 , 06:12 AM
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I again assert 'my substantiation that Recreational Sport is enormously popular worldwide'

I continue to assert it is 'enormously popular in the UK'

Yes which is why:


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that the VAST majority of sports (80%) are MIXED.
No, because:



and





Not MASSIVE, /discussion.

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09-04-2022 , 06:23 AM
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Originally Posted by chillrob
I believe that is his point, that social/fitness sports have greater overall participation than do truly competitive sports teams.

In the US, there are intra mural sports at universities, even small colleges without competitive teams, where groups of students play against other students from the same school. These are often mixed gender teams. There are also teams of people who work at a company, who play sports (softball is the most common I believe) against teams from other small businesses, or other teams who have the same employer (if it is a large company). These are also usually mixed gender. Sometimes they will have a rule that the same number of each gender must be on each team, so teams with more men won't dominate teams with more women. I don't know anything about the rate of participation in these activities compared with actual professional and collegiate sports where participants receive payment or scholarships and usually have spectators, but I believe these are the kinds of activities Cuepee is speaking of. Not sure if people not in the US or Canada have been understanding what he is referring to.

If I'm incorrect, Cuepee is welcome to correct me.
Yes but the culture is very different in the UK, any man can walk into an amateur level sports team playing football cricket or rugby at a level that matches their skill level, its harder with rugby and cricket but is incredibly easy with football with which there are masses of teams playing every Saturday and Sunday in organised leagues. There also tons of amateur level rugby teams and cricket teams, its nothing to do with being professional.

Universities might host some of the activities you are talking about, but given only about 3.6% of the adult population is at University in the UK, and say if we say hugely generous 25% of those do some kind of co ed sports thing, that is less than 1% of the population involved in that activity.

[ ] Massive.

The company softball thing will have even smaller numbers, that is a very obscure niche activity in the UK.
09-04-2022 , 06:40 AM
So just to add to the above.

Kingston University, organises formal activities for its students.

QP in a vey lol way hangs his whole argument on that.

The Students are free of course to organise their own activities.

Which they do, and as such there is a single sex womens team at Kingston University.

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Kingston University Ladies Football (KULFC) are currently competing in BUCS league South Eastern 3B division. We are really looking foward to getting back to training and playing games.

We are also excited to be coached by Marc Edwards for another season who is Head of Performance Analysis at Fulham FC and has over 10 years of coaching experience.

This year, like every other, we have loads of fun socials planned ready to meet all our new freshers! We will be holding trials towards the beginning of the year and welcome players of all abilities to attend.
https://www.kingstonstudents.net/gro...men-s-football

So the idea that sports at Universities are near exclusive (80%) mixed is it self totally false.
09-04-2022 , 08:13 AM
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Originally Posted by chillrob
I believe that is his point, that social/fitness sports have greater overall participation than do truly competitive sports teams.

In the US, there are intra mural sports at universities, even small colleges without competitive teams, where groups of students play against other students from the same school. These are often mixed gender teams. There are also teams of people who work at a company, who play sports (softball is the most common I believe) against teams from other small businesses, or other teams who have the same employer (if it is a large company). These are also usually mixed gender. Sometimes they will have a rule that the same number of each gender must be on each team, so teams with more men won't dominate teams with more women. I don't know anything about the rate of participation in these activities compared with actual professional and collegiate sports where participants receive payment or scholarships and usually have spectators, but I believe these are the kinds of activities Cuepee is speaking of. Not sure if people not in the US or Canada have been understanding what he is referring to.

If I'm incorrect, Cuepee is welcome to correct me.
Well he may be correct about the US and Canada if that is where he's from but he's definitely incorrect with regards to the UK, and that is what is being discussed.
09-04-2022 , 12:24 PM
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Originally Posted by Cuepee
It seems no one here wants to discuss any of the more serious topics but seeing a huge increase in the reported cases of people who have transitioned and are now upset, suing or otherwise saying they did not get the proper care they needed, prior to being allowed to transition, I do think the USA, as other countries ahead on this curve are dong, will need to focus more on Social Contagion aspect and the treatment professionals who seem all too often to just be eager to push individuals thru to surgery and drugs (profit motive??) instead of seeking other courses.

I suspect here some may get angry at any attempt to discuss this issue or that societies even consider it but it is important nonetheless. The attempts to 'silence' discussions like this must not be tolerated..
I was wondering if I was the only one to see "social contagion" and "rapid onset gender dysphoria" pop up everywhere in anti-trans places, but this article sheds light on the phenomena of a "huge increase" of people of talking about trans people as a "Social Contagion": https://www.technologyreview.com/202...der-dysphoria/

I talk a lot about patterns of rhetoric, because I think it is important. This is separate from the validity of any individual specific claim, it is about building larger narratives around trans people that pervade our approaches. One of those patterns of rhetoric I've talked about it casting trans people as fake. This whole "Social Contagion" bit just rings so much as trying to be the cool sciency way to suggest that lots of trans people are largely just fake. No wonder if springs up so much. Cuepee is joined by other auspicious company that is using the same theory:

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Originally Posted by article
Justifications for anti-trans bills, like a memo on Florida’s attempt to stop Medicaid funding for adult transition-related health care, routinely cite the study in their footnotes.

Five years later, Jay’s mom still doesn’t believe that he’s trans.
I rather love the juxtaposition here, because it shows both the large scale how the "Social Contagion" theory is used as justification in the ever-growing string of anti-trans bills but also comes down to individuals and the trans kids not accepted by their own mom's.

Of course this premise is being recycled. A very prominent component of the homophobia of the 90s and 2000s was the whole idea that exposure to things like gay teachers was going to turn kids gay. I don't recall that specific "Social Contagion" buzzword in that era, but this was the idea nevertheless.
09-04-2022 , 12:42 PM
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Originally Posted by chillrob
I believe that is his point, that social/fitness sports have greater overall participation than do truly competitive sports teams.

In the US, there are intra mural sports at universities, even small colleges without competitive teams, where groups of students play against other students from the same school. These are often mixed gender teams. There are also teams of people who work at a company, who play sports (softball is the most common I believe) against teams from other small businesses, or other teams who have the same employer (if it is a large company). These are also usually mixed gender. Sometimes they will have a rule that the same number of each gender must be on each team, so teams with more men won't dominate teams with more women. I don't know anything about the rate of participation in these activities compared with actual professional and collegiate sports where participants receive payment or scholarships and usually have spectators, but I believe these are the kinds of activities Cuepee is speaking of. Not sure if people not in the US or Canada have been understanding what he is referring to.

If I'm incorrect, Cuepee is welcome to correct me.
Basically got it.

My point was that mix gender recreational sport is huge world wide. Arguably the biggest voluntary thing people do, outside voting participation that I can think of.

O.A.F.K questioned that generally and then threw in,his view about it not being true in the UK. I simply stood by it being the case world wide (and quickly showed substantiation for that view) while saying I would be 'surprised' if the UK was an outlier.

That some think university is the only place Recreational sport takes is just wrong. It takes place in grade schools, middle schools and all the way thru to Uni and in the COmmunity generally. And as i showed in those links, most activities are generally open to mixed participation and very few are restricted.

I mean, fine, if the UK is an outlier (I still don't think it is to the degree they do based on those links), but so what. Then I say 'ok I am surprised'.
09-04-2022 , 12:45 PM
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Originally Posted by Husker
Well he may be correct about the US and Canada if that is where he's from but he's definitely incorrect with regards to the UK, and that is what is being discussed.
Maybe so, but you were completely misunderstanding what was being referred to.

This whole subtopic is pretty pointless though. I can't imagine anyone seriously thinks that the main reason that women have separate sports teams is because "men hate losing to women".
09-04-2022 , 12:47 PM
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Originally Posted by uke_master
I was wondering if I was the only one to see "social contagion" and "rapid onset gender dysphoria" pop up everywhere in anti-trans places, but this article sheds light on the phenomena of a "huge increase" of people of talking about trans people as a "Social Contagion": https://www.technologyreview.com/202...der-dysphoria/

I talk a lot about patterns of rhetoric, because I think it is important. This is separate from the validity of any individual specific claim, it is about building larger narratives around trans people that pervade our approaches. One of those patterns of rhetoric I've talked about it casting trans people as fake. This whole "Social Contagion" bit just rings so much as trying to be the cool sciency way to suggest that lots of trans people are largely just fake. No wonder if springs up so much. Cuepee is joined by other auspicious company that is using the same theory:

I rather love the juxtaposition here, because it shows both the large scale how the "Social Contagion" theory is used as justification in the ever-growing string of anti-trans bills but also comes down to individuals and the trans kids not accepted by their own mom's.

Of course this premise is being recycled. A very prominent component of the homophobia of the 90s and 2000s was the whole idea that exposure to things like gay teachers was going to turn kids gay. I don't recall that specific "Social Contagion" buzzword in that era, but this was the idea nevertheless.
uke you do realize you "used that same theory' of social contagion as well right. I am pretty sure you spread it upthread before I ever mentioned it.
09-04-2022 , 12:48 PM
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Originally Posted by chillrob
that the main reason that women have separate sports teams is because "men hate losing to women".
Which of course nobody claimed.....

I love this thread, so much nuanced discussion!
09-04-2022 , 12:59 PM
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Originally Posted by InJuiceWeTrust
Which of course nobody claimed.....

I love this thread, so much nuanced discussion!
that is exactly what Trolly was pushing.

he was saying it was because men cannot stand losing to women, and to ask women about it, when we were discussing the reason why women's divisions originated. He continually pushed that view.
09-04-2022 , 01:06 PM
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Originally Posted by Trolly McTrollson
Just as anyone else, trans people have an obligation to participate in the 'general interest' of the sport they play. That obligation is of any participants in any non-competitive sport. In many places, a default for trans people participating in any type of competitive sport or competition is that they should just stick with what they know and compete as trans. But as we have explained many times, competitive SPORT is hardly likely to be the best environment for trans people. As we have explained in past threads, when competing with other trans people one is potentially creating the conditions for them to struggle for playing time, etc, because there are less people of the same ilk in that competitive setting.

So as a general approach to this debate, the more people you can get (even in a recreational sport setting) the better. More trans people in the recreation sport setting does no harm to trans people in the Competitive SPORT setting. If more trans people find a recreational sport they can participate in, it does no harm to the competitive SPORT setting.

In fact, it would likely have some benefit for the Competitive SPORT setting to have more trans people to compete against in order to work out the actual consequences of where trans people may fall in that Competitive SPORT setting.

There are so many very valid reasons to be in support of allowing trans women to compete competitively in Competitive SPORT, the amount of this thread that is to do with what Competitive SPORT is NOT like, and what it SHOULD be like (and do we really need to enumerate those) is a LOT.

I know there have been several threads specifically to point out this, but let me try to do that here:

It is NOT about inclusiveness and its exclusion of people that are not cis

Most of what we have been seeing discussed in the Gender issues thread is about defining what Competitive SPORT SHOULD be, and this tends to make the topic of Competitive SPORT become very narrow and singular focused. It is in this sort of narrow focus where we lose sight of what Competitive SPORT, with it's many different sub-sections, actually is and can be. We should spend far more time figuring out what kinds of sports that fall under Competitive SPORT will best suit all who wish to participate in competitive SPORT.

The challenge is not, and never has been, in having everyone compete in a competitive setting. It is in figuring out what sort of competitions are best for all who wish to participate in competitive SPORT. And the challenge is in making those competitions available in a way that everyone can access.

There is no contest, sport, activity that should or can be exclusive. If there were, it would be a game of rules designed to discriminate against individuals. So yes, competition must have rules and a set of agreed upon criteria. It must have competition levels and rules to separate different classes of athletes (as happens all the time in all sports). The competition level may have certain requirements, but it does not have to be exclusive.

But the point that has been missed (and no doubt, it will be missed by people who have never really looked into competitive SPORT at all) is that there are multiple categories of SPORTs,
I am only now seeing this post.

Seems confusing to me as I feel you are arguing that Trans individuals are best suited to recreational sport but there may be some areas of Competitive sport where they can compete?

that would be a position that largely mirrors my own and against the more absolutist types ones I have been fighting against. If so, welcome to team QP.
09-04-2022 , 01:13 PM
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Originally Posted by Cuepee
uke you do realize you "used that same theory' of social contagion as well right. I am pretty sure you spread it upthread before I ever mentioned it.
I rather doubt this, but feel free to quote me. I've barely posted in this specific thread, but a search of my user name seems to indicate the only other time I've used "social contagion" on this forum was when quoting 57 on red, which should be an alarm bell on the use of the term in and of itself.

Regardless, the critique of proponents of "social contagion" established in the quoted article stand.
09-04-2022 , 01:31 PM
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Originally Posted by uke_master
I rather doubt this, but feel free to quote me. I've barely posted in this specific thread, but a search of my user name seems to indicate the only other time I've used "social contagion" on this forum was when quoting 57 on red, which should be an alarm bell on the use of the term in and of itself.

Regardless, the critique of proponents of "social contagion" established in the quoted article stand.
The quote is your post before mine.

You are pushing an argument that if we simply quote articles where psychologists and other professionals are discussing any aspect of the potential of social contagion, that we then are amongst those using that theory. Even if we have taken no position on it.

The idea that merely quoting others discussing it attaches a culpability to us.

Well you are quoting us discussing others, discussing it, thus you are doing the same thing. You too are guilty 'using that theory' if that is all it takes.
09-04-2022 , 01:38 PM
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Originally Posted by Cuepee
The quote is your post before mine.

You are pushing an argument that if we simply quote articles where psychologists and other professionals are discussing any aspect of the potential of social contagion, that we then are amongst those using that theory. Even if we have taken no position on it.
I'm not quite following. I quoted you taking a position, did I not?

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Originally Posted by Cuepee taking a position
I do think the USA, as other countries ahead on this curve are dong, will need to focus more on Social Contagion aspect
Regardless, even if you are totally neutral on the "Social Contagion" hypothesis, and merely quoting that others hold it, I think the article I shared is a helpful critique of that hypothesis. The real takeaway here in my mind isn't any specific scientific claim, but observing the phenomena of how this particular single study blew up in anti-trans circles and the narrative elements that this entails. Hopefully you are now more informed and able to take a position about how much we need to focus on this "social contagion" aspect!
09-04-2022 , 02:20 PM
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Originally Posted by uke_master
I'm not quite following. I quoted you taking a position, did I not?



Regardless, even if you are totally neutral on the "Social Contagion" hypothesis, and merely quoting that others hold it, I think the article I shared is a helpful critique of that hypothesis. The real takeaway here in my mind isn't any specific scientific claim, but observing the phenomena of how this particular single study blew up in anti-trans circles and the narrative elements that this entails. Hopefully you are now more informed and able to take a position about how much we need to focus on this "social contagion" aspect!
I am neutral. It is a question that others are asking and that I think itis one they need to answer then.

What you are saying is 'there is more than one view on it' which is fine. That goes into working towards the answer.
09-04-2022 , 03:39 PM
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Originally Posted by InJuiceWeTrust
Which of course nobody claimed.....

I love this thread, so much nuanced discussion!
Might want to catch yourself up with your brethren's posts before saying something like this.
09-04-2022 , 04:31 PM
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Originally Posted by Cuepee
. It takes place in grade schools, middle schools and all the way thru to Uni and in the COmmunity generally. And .
UK and Europe in general dont have these classifications for schools.

I can also assure you that mixed gender sporting activity is not the norm in most team sports at under 16 education in the UK, yea when UK children are in primary school ( as we classify it) in infant school (as we classify it) there might be some kick a ball around the playground for very young ages, but thats it, maybe rounders.

Stuff like PE and running is, but not team sports.

Also I dont think its really a safe assumption to assume that UK is an outlier with regards adult participation in mixed gender team sports, what happens in the UK is much more likely to be similar to what happens in Europe, than what happens in Canada/USA.

Sure Universities might formally offer some dumbed down diluted team mixed gender team sports that have no league structure, but students organise their own single gender activates as has been shown also.

The community generally as you call it offers a ton of single sex team sports, mixed gender really not so much as several people from the UK have tried to explain to you.

Keep lecturing people about their countries though, its obvious you know those countries better than they do because you googled Kingston University.
09-04-2022 , 06:18 PM
Every google search i look at says you are the type of person to say 'if I am unaware of it, it does not exist'.

I took two seconds to see if indeed softball, slowpitch was not a thing in the UK and voila. It is ALWAYS amongst the first hits.





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Slowpitch Softball


Slowpitch softball is the most popular and easily accessible format of baseball and softball that exists today in the UK. It's a lot like baseball in terms of the rules, but because the ball is pitched slowly to each batter (as the name implies!), it's easy to hit the ball and get involved in the game.

Slowpitch is a game that's easy to pick up and accommodates mixed abilities, with both experienced players and novices able to play on the same team. Teams are mixed-gender and slowpitch is a popular sport among players from the LGBTQ+ community. All this gives the sport a great buzz, and most softball games are followed by social sessions at the local pub!

Slowpitch is played both recreationally and competitively in summer leagues after work, in winter indoor leagues and during summer weekend tournaments across the country, including at the Farnham Park National Baseball & Softball Complex. There are over 20 leagues and hundreds of teams across the country, with thousands of players in London alone.

In addition to co-ed (mixed-gender) slowpitch softball, there are also single-sex men's and women's slowpitch teams that form to play in a number of local and national tournaments during the season.

The British Softball Federation is the National Governing Body of Slowpitch Softball. For more info contact them here

Find a slowpitch softball team near you by using the Team Finder - click the logo below to search!

If i was to take the time to go thru all of these recreational sports listed as being across the UK, most of which I know offer mixed participation in Canada/US I would bet I would the same in the UK. But what is the point as you will hand wave it all away as I am sure you will do with slow pitch above.

Humans like to interact in casual play, especially sport, with the opposite sex. Again I would be shocked if the UK is such an outlier in that regard and Slowpitch above tells me they are not.
09-04-2022 , 06:31 PM
And since I see that Badminton is one of the top sports played in the UK along with Tennis, do you concede that almost certainly mixed play in recreational clubs will be almost certain? Or do I need to look it up?
09-04-2022 , 06:42 PM
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Originally Posted by Cuepee
What you are saying is 'there is more than one view on it' which is fine. That goes into working towards the answer.
This isn't CNN. We don't have to pretend there are two equally valid sides and maintain some faux neutrality about it. As the article documents, there is a whole right-wing anti-trans conspiracy that took a single study (whose author says has been misinterpreted and which has been decimated in methodological review) and spun it out into a whole narrative about "social contagions" of trans youth. It connects deeply to latent narratives about trans people (gay people before them) being fake and being convertible by teachers hence why we get "Don't say gay" bills citing this. This isn't both-sides-ism. This isn't "there is more than one view on it".
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Originally Posted by Cuepee
I am neutral.
I think it is worth deeply reflecting on your own role. I don't know how you found this anti-trans anonymous twitter account with 5k followers tweeting about social contagion, but it is worth I think seeing how those dots are connected back to the larger picture, and also how your own actions amplifying those types of messages which is not a neutral act, and especially not with your choice of language: "I do think the USA...will need to focus more on social contagion". Maybe a good analogy would be sharing the language with racists who are making some sort of faux-intellectual debate about I dunno IQ in black people or something, and uncritically sharing that message with calls that you think we should answer these questions is just not a neutral act. You might be ignorant of the backstory, but it still isn't neutral. Just-Asking-Questions guy is a meme for a reason; don't be that guy.

Regardless, hopefully you now are aware of some things you were not and will be less likely to give this narrative such significance when it is spouted by 57 on Red or SimpleRick or twitter.
09-04-2022 , 06:53 PM
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Originally Posted by Cuepee
Every google search i look at says you are the type of person to say 'if I am unaware of it, it does not exist'.

I took two seconds to see if indeed softball, slowpitch was not a thing in the UK and voila. It is ALWAYS amongst the first hits.








If i was to take the time to go thru all of these recreational sports listed as being across the UK, most of which I know offer mixed participation in Canada/US I would bet I would the same in the UK. But what is the point as you will hand wave it all away as I am sure you will do with slow pitch above.

Humans like to interact in casual play, especially sport, with the opposite sex. Again I would be shocked if the UK is such an outlier in that regard and Slowpitch above tells me they are not.
Your goal post shifting is insane here.

I never said it did not exist, I just said not many people do it, now sure the official website of the sport might make some claims, because that is its function, but maybe 1 in 100 UK adults does this, maybe 1% being generous.

As regards Tennis/badminton, if you actually read posts, you will see I already said that it probably the only activity in which there is a degree of gender mixing, but we have been discussing team sports.

Im telling you something, as someone who lives in a country to someone who is simply projecting assumptions in a frankly amazingly ignorant way, mixed gender team sports is not massive in the UK, it just isnt.

I would post all masses of data supporting this again, but you just ignore it because QP gonna QP.

      
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