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Originally Posted by chillrob
Not really. My question was not about information, it how do we refer to one or the other without being considered offensive.
maybe just stop being worried about offending people, I offend people all the time.
If you're worried about consequences, you'll never face consequences if you act reasonably.
Where I see a lot of guys get in trouble here is that they assume they are the most smartest person in a conversation, that they are special subconsciously, and they don't believe the person they are talking to feels the way they said they do.
For example if someone says dam there are way too many white guys here, just accept that they genuinely think there are too many white guys here.
If a woman tells you you're being rude accept that she thinks you're being rude.
If a transgender person says you're comments are transphobic just accept that they think they are.
Most people wouldn't say anything about things that are not bothering them and they are usually being genuine.
If you treat people with respect you won't actually get in trouble.
don't live your life being afraid of offending random groups, it's weird and selfish.