Cliffs: I don't care that much about the specific commercial and f**lching doesn't appeal to me.
I can recall personally being uncomfortable with pictures of guys kissing. A long time ago, when I got into trouble, after having gone through my original two therapists and a social worker without avail, I later got a new therapist who was a specialist, and he was the first person I ever talked to about my sexuality in an honest way.Note I was so terrified of my own sexual thoughts that I did not describe them honestly to multiple therapists. He was gay as well and I often described things to him in ways which would be considered homophobic by some. But regardless of my low opinion of myself and other gay men, who I often would describe as not being manly enough, not realizing at the time the blatant internalized homophobia. Internalized homophobia is a big problem.
Which is why we need more images of guys kissing. So that people can be more confident in themselves...
I don't see how you could draw any conclusions about anything from that commercial, it's one commercial. But then the conversation veered into felching territory , and it was implied that gay guys have some disgusting habits that might be dangerous to learn, but actually gay sex is on average less disgusting than straight sex. Straight men are often nasty and unclean.
As has already been pointed out you can't take a weird fetish and ascribe it to all gay men as if to say there is some new weird invading sexuality. I could do the same thing.
Straight men dress up like dogs and watch two guys lick peanut butter off womens hairy anomias. is that really something we want our young impressionable gay men to be exposed to??
Like seriously I recently saw a commercial where this guy was licking this woman's leg and then he noticed she had a hair on her otherwise leg so he clipped the hair off her otherwise perfect leg and then he put the hair into his mouth. It was wtf but presumably she was so hot he wanted to eat the leg hair or something but to anyone watching who wasn't perving on the model it was disgusting.
So like for me, I have my own sexual interests that are my own.
I was just looking at this dress and found it to be exciting and pleasing to look at, especially since the color is great for the models skin tone, she wears it almost as well as I would(
) and was imagining wearing her wardrobe ( which in practical terms is too inaccessible for me to accurately emulate)
I was thinking about a tall guy I recently met at a wedding and imagining him undressing me wearing that dress as I looked at it. I have a strong imagination and feel his strong hands looking for straps or zippers as he kisses me and taking it off with great force, stupidly telling me that it's a nice dress and I look so hot.
I imagine him still in his suit sans jacket pinning my naked body against a wall as he kissed me and then leading my hand into his pants and then motioning me into bed.
I imagine him letting me help him undress and seeing his beautiful 7 inch cock. I imagine him being very gentle and me on top riding him feeling him deep inside me , feeling his desire for me. I imagine him coming and then I imagine him doing me again, and again. 4 times in a row.
I imagine him kissing me goodbye with his penis lightly touching my waist and giving me his credit card and asking me to buy lingerie and take pictures while he is at work.
I imagine many many things like this.
But I would never imagine felching because it doesn't appeal to me and it's kind of a turn off based on the kind of sex I do like to have. Like I kind of feel like after a hot guy comes over you whether it's on your chest or your butt or your face, I feel like at that point it no longer belongs to him teehee. It would be weird if he was like no now I want my own come back. I would be like no it's mine!