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02-13-2023 , 12:28 PM
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Originally Posted by Luckbox Inc
Other than the small percentage of people born with fetal alcohol syndrome, people aren't born alcoholics either. Society creates the conditions for it and then you have a certain percentage of people who through who through their own choices and genetic disposition are funneled into it. They wish they could stop drinking but are compelled to.



I'm sure it's not a perfect analogy, but the point is that society is creating the conditions for both alcoholism and gender dysphoria. Imagine living in a culture where people are in touch with themselves, with nature, etc-- where there is no internet or puberty blocking hormones. Will gay people still exist? Yes almost certainly because we can be pretty sure that when this experiment was ran they did-- but people weren't clamoring to get their sex organs cut off because it wasn't something people conceived was a possibility.



What the solution now is though? Idk. People should be able to do whatever they want. I certainly am not suggesting otherwise. With kids though it's a bit different because kids don't have the full capacity to understand the consequences of their actions, and my suggestion is that we de-emphasize gender, let boys play with dolls and girls with toy trucks if they want, or not, instead of taking them to the gender clinic. Although ultimately it's too late for that as Pandora's box has already been opened and you can't close it. The best we can hope for is that science catches up.
So that whole native Americans being more susceptible to alcoholism is BS? I have no idea, was touted decades ago but could have been debunked by now.
So you think trans people are mainly a product of their environment? I have to guess cross dressing has been going on for ages. Doesn't really matter, we'll have to agree to disagree. I'm sure there have been people since how long there have been people that had wished they could be in a different body and doubt there's going to be anything that you can cite that would change my mind and it's really not even a big issue to me but still guess your opinion is going to be on the wrong side of history.
As for treatment of kids we never touched on that and I can't say I'm a proponent of handing out puberty blockers like candy but haven't really pondered it too much.
02-13-2023 , 12:30 PM
Do you have any idea how many heterosexual people kill their kids? You've found literally one lesbian couple that killed their kids and are trying to make them all out to be murderers. Your logic is seriously flawed.
02-13-2023 , 12:33 PM
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Originally Posted by washoe
And we have been tought by academics that a child needs
a mother and father. It is really important to have a male and female
role in their lives. It was never men and men, or woman and woman.
why is it now men and men? yea right..
wtf are you talking about dude? So children are better off in orphanages than going to two people that desperately want a child and have the means to care for that child?
Also last time I checked which was 10+ years ago, the rate of children that turned out to be gay when raised in a gay household was about the same as kids raised in straight households.
02-13-2023 , 12:37 PM
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Originally Posted by 5 south
So that whole native Americans being more susceptible to alcoholism is BS? I have no idea, was touted decades ago but could have been debunked by now.
So you think trans people are mainly a product of their environment? I have to guess cross dressing has been going on for ages. Doesn't really matter, we'll have to agree to disagree. I'm sure there have been people since how long there have been people that had wished they could be in a different body and doubt there's going to be anything that you can cite that would change my mind and it's really not even a big issue to me but still guess your opinion is going to be on the wrong side of history.
As for treatment of kids we never touched on that and I can't say I'm a proponent of handing out puberty blockers like candy but haven't really pondered it too much.
I don't know if native Americans are more susceptible to alcoholism or not. I assume based on what I've been told that there is genetics involved there.

Yes I think trans people are mainly a product of their environment. Not all cross-dressers are trans, and not all autogynephiles are trans.

It could be that I'm on the wrong side of history but I would trade that for being on the correct side of reason.
02-13-2023 , 12:55 PM
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Originally Posted by Luckbox Inc
I don't know if native Americans are more susceptible to alcoholism or not. I assume based on what I've been told that there is genetics involved there.

Yes I think trans people are mainly a product of their environment. Not all cross-dressers are trans, and not all autogynephiles are trans.

It could be that I'm on the wrong side of history but I would trade that for being on the correct side of reason.

They are not more susceptable, at least not genetically, or biologically.
They are made to be becuase they were thrown into ghettos and they and their culture got destroyed and exploited. Thats common knowledge imo at least it should be.
02-13-2023 , 01:10 PM
I wouldn't classify native American reservations as ghettos. I've been on some.

One of my hobbies is picking up native hitchhikers driving through northeastern Arizona if I'm going to or from Colorado. They're almost always interesting and I've been shown around the area and taken to cool places that have petroglyphs. One guy though I recall had been passed out drunk from the night before off the road, another one was out partying with his family by the river that I had been camping by, passed out drunk and his family just left him there.

My sense is though is that they drink-- at least the ones in that area in Navajo country-- drink because while northeastern Arizona can be beautiful, it's also sort of a barren wasteland and there is nothing else to do.
02-13-2023 , 01:21 PM
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Originally Posted by washoe
There arent much public examples.
Is there a list somewhere I can consult?
02-13-2023 , 01:49 PM
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Originally Posted by Didace
Is there a list somewhere I can consult?

Actually there is: https://gayswithkids.com/famous-gay-...nd-their-kids/

I was a bit off there and not aware it was that many and well known people uncluding:

Anderson Cooper
Clay Aiken
Ricky Martin
Elton John
02-13-2023 , 02:23 PM
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Originally Posted by washoe
So you think 2 grown man should be able to adopt and raise a child?
Why do you think that? Im thinking of the child and the child only.
Not of the people who want to gain from this in any way.
Hey I was raised Christian Reformed and was very homophobic as I was taught that way in School, Church and Catechism . It really did not dawn on me till my late 30's as I was surrounded by more gay and lesbian folks that they were nice people and why should I care . As life has progressed I have met many great gay and lesbian couples that have kids and they seem to be great parents.

I would challenge your thought that there is more child abuse in a straight home than a gay or lesbian home and I suspect a child may do better in those homes of course I have no data to back that up with
02-13-2023 , 02:24 PM
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Originally Posted by washoe
Actually there is: https://gayswithkids.com/famous-gay-...nd-their-kids/

I was a bit off there and not aware it was that many and well known people uncluding:

Anderson Cooper
Clay Aiken
Ricky Martin
Elton John
Here's a thought - maybe make sure you have even the slightest ****ing clue what you're talking about before going off on a homohobic tangent?
02-13-2023 , 02:28 PM
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Originally Posted by karmarein
Do you have any idea how many heterosexual people kill their kids?
This is why, washoe. Obviously.
02-13-2023 , 02:34 PM
Ah cool, so now in the Trans thread we're putting on throwback uniforms and smearing gay couples.
02-13-2023 , 03:03 PM
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Originally Posted by Bobo Fett
Here's a thought - maybe make sure you have even the slightest ****ing clue what you're talking about before going off on a homohobic tangent?

If it came off as homophobic, I apologize.
02-13-2023 , 03:11 PM
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Originally Posted by washoe
If it came off as homophobic, I apologize.
I really don't understand you, washoe. You deliberately insinuated that gay couples who adopt children are more likely to abuse (or even kill) children than straight couples. You had absolutely no basis for the inference you were asking us to draw. Then you apologize as if you inadvertently stepped in dogshit and tracked it into someone's living room.

But you didn't inadvertently step in anything. You knowingly asked us to draw a negative inference about gay parents. You should at least have the guts to own your own prejudice.
02-13-2023 , 03:18 PM
What don't you get? He's a prolific troll
02-13-2023 , 03:26 PM
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Originally Posted by nutella virus
What don't you get? He's a prolific troll
As much as I disagree with him as well I find the best solution is to educate and treat with respect. 20 years ago I felt the same way.

If he has no interaction with a gay or lesbian couple in the community how can he judge.

I do think calling him a troll violates our new rules as well
02-13-2023 , 03:28 PM
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Originally Posted by nutella virus
What don't you get? He's a prolific troll
"Playing dumb" trolls are a thing, I guess, but I have a hard time believing that's what this is. If the washoe persona is a schtick, then the owner of the account has an inhuman level of commitment.
02-13-2023 , 03:33 PM
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Originally Posted by lozen
If he has no interaction with a gay or lesbian couple in the community how can he judge.
Maybe he could just use common sense. I don't have to travel in time back to Salem in order to assess whether anyone who lived in the town in 1692 was actually a witch.
02-13-2023 , 03:58 PM
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Originally Posted by Rococo
Maybe he could just use common sense. I don't have to travel in time back to Salem in order to assess whether anyone who lived in the town in 1692 was actually a witch.
Yet we do not have far to go back were a Aftrican American President did not believe in Gay Marriage let alone adoption and we still allow a schools and churches to teach that homosexuality is a sin while their priests diddle little boys
02-13-2023 , 04:07 PM
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Originally Posted by lozen
Yet we do not have far to go back were a Aftrican American President did not believe in Gay Marriage let alone adoption and we still allow a schools and churches to teach that homosexuality is a sin while their priests diddle little boys
Therefore . . . .?
02-13-2023 , 04:16 PM
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Originally Posted by Rococo
Therefore . . . .?
Its believable that there are still many folks out there like Washoe that still have this opinion . Im not saying their right
02-13-2023 , 06:07 PM
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Originally Posted by lozen
I do think calling him a troll violates our new rules as well
You can call people child mutilators and imply they’re pedophiles out to harm children. I imagine troll is allowed.
02-13-2023 , 06:25 PM
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Originally Posted by washoe
They didnt kill their own biological kids, they killed their 6 adopted children. And it was recently in 2016. So thats different.
How is it different? And there are plenty of people who have killed their kids more recently than 2016.

      
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