Here's what I think I understand from what lagtight has said:
We have a man that was born into a devoutly Christian home. Went to Sunday school and church throughout his childhood, and knows all the "rules" forwards and backwards. In spite of these teachings, he goes on to live an extremely terrible life. Forsakes the church, is nasty to everyone, and is a career criminal - never works an honest day in his life. In the end, pissed off at the world, he goes on a huge killing spree. Gunned down by police, wounded fatally, he finds himself in the hospital on his deathbed. At that time he repents and accepts Jesus as his saviour. If I understand things correctly, off he goes to heaven.
We have another man who was born into a devoutly Muslim home. Similarly, he's off to mosque regularly, learns all he is supposed to, and has learned all the ways in which he is supposed to be a good Muslim. And he adheres to those teachings all his life. Additionally (or because of his faith), he chooses to live his life in service to others, never owns anything beyond the bare minimum for survival and shares what he has with the less fortunate. When he dies, he does so still adhering to his Muslim faith. No heaven for him!
And let's throw a third one in there. He was brought up in a household of atheists, but being raised in North America is certainly aware of and has access to Christian teachings. Lives his life much like the second man, in service to others, but dies as an atheist, never believing in God. No heaven for him!
That leads me to three questions for lagtight:
1) Do I have this basically correct?
2) Do any of these men go to hell, and if not, what kind of person does go? I'm not sure if it's a binary thing for you, IE you go to one or the other, or if most people simply go to neither. Or perhaps your religion doesn't even have a hell.
3) How have you arrived at Christianity, and your particular branch of it? Is this something you learned through your childhood and have adhered to, or did you do some searching to settle upon this as the true/correct religion for you?
I ask none of this as a "gotcha" or trap. I don't see a lot of point in trying to convince the religious of the flaws I see in their beliefs. I do too much of that already in places like the riggie thread.