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Originally Posted by Bobo Fett
Starts here, I believe:
https://forumserver.twoplustwo.com/s...&postcount=441
Actually, that's where the misgendering started, but the cheating part probably started in the post he's replying to. That was a spinoff from a "hundreds of teenage men could beat the best women" discussion.
Thanks.
OK. I went back and read through the 140 or so posts on this topic so I think I got a pretty good feel for the issues at hand and the varying opinions of several posters. First, I'd like to address the topic from my personal perspective as a poster. Then I'll share my thoughts as to how we should address this topic from a forum and modding perspective. My comments arent in any particular order of importance.
First, I think it's pretty clear from the discussion, with the examples given and policies cited, that Lia Thomas was or is in no way a cheater in the standard use of that word. Everything she did was within the rules and regulations of the governing bodies of the events she participated in.
When I was growing up in the 1950s and 60s, the Olympic Games were a huge global athletic and political event. It was basically the free world vs the commies. And the medal counts were used as proxies for which system was superior. Amateurism was a "strict" requirement so professional athletes were forbidden from playing. Of course, we accused the commies of using ringers, like claiming their entire hockey team were all "soldiers" on the military payroll rather than our poor, starving true amateurs. Things got blurred when the US created facilities like the military's "training center" where those soldiers with world class abilities were "stationed" to still do Army jobs and train in their "free time".
Then came the absurdity of allowing professional players to compete in their own sport, with the US basketball "dream team" being the pinnacle of the hypocrisy of the policy. For many in my generation, that was the end of the Olympics as we knew them. But Michael Jordan and Magic Johnson werent "cheaters" since it was all OK with the Olympic Committees. Unfair as hell, but not cheating.
That said, there is certainly room for those who believe that the policies are wrong, or wrong-headed, and the inclusion of transwomen in womens sporting events is unfair. This is a complex issue with a lot of factors and nuance that often get left out in the desire to reduce every situation to a binary, you are either with us or against us, it's black or white, ignoring the vast amount of gradations of gray that exist between those clear extremes. It's quite a mixture of physical and mental characteristics and conditions, layered over with religious and other cultural beliefs that ultimately shape one's view on this topic.
So was Thomas cheating? No. No rule breaking was involved. Can a reasonable person feel there could be an inherent unfairness with the policy? Sure. But it's important to draw that distinction, imo.
Before I get to my next point, a quick word on grammar, spelling, typos, etc. as I've mentioned before, worrying about grammar on an internet forum is like pole vaulting over a mouse turd. My ipad (dropped countless times) often types letters different from the keys I press and puts words I didn't type. Sometimes I just don't have the time nor inclination to go back and proofread a post that few will see and will have a half-life measured in minutes if not seconds. So while I applaud Uke's efforts to educate everyone on current standard practices, I am not going to get involved in anyway modding over whether someone typed Transman or transman or trans man or trans-man. They all end up sounding the same when I read them anyway.
Now on to pronouns. Deliberately misgendering someone who is transgender is a bigoted act and is not allowed. In this forum, those who insist on doing so will receive appropriate disciplinary actions. It doesn't matter if the target of the comment is a forum member, a relatively unknown person or a celebrity. To deliberately misgender is a form of attacking the identity of the minority group as a whole.
I recall women weight lifters in my University (long before weight training was common with women athletes) being derisively called "him or he". Today you can still see the obnoxious and tired poker meme of showing a picture of Vanessa Selbst and calling her Doug Polk. Misgendering anyone, whether cis or trans, is a hurtful insult. There is no placefor that here. It's not nice.
I have too much catching up to do with hundreds of posts to read to go back now and delete or infract for what has occurred while I was away. But pls lets all just move forward and get back on track with solid, and at times heated debates while keeping the insults and trolling out of the forum.
Thanks.