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Originally Posted by ShoeMakerLevy9
I admire JP's ability to grab preposterous ideas and explain/discuss them in a way he makes them look like they're completely rational and worthy of proper debate. Pretty much what happens with most religious apologists, with the difference they're probably just delusional. I have to say sometimes his takes are interesting, but the amount of sophisticated nonsense is unbearable.
I have never heard anything but soundbites from Jordan Peterson but i know he has gone down some bad rabbit holes (seeing dollar signs from the more looney right, i am sure) but his basic message when he came on to the scene, which was generally laughed at and derided by, mostly the left was a good one.
There is an attempt in todays society to diminish the importance of gender roles, or to say even such a thing exists, but i think there is generally a big loss in the very principles that men were primarily the ones to enforce that are largely being lost in todays society.
the 'make your bed', 'clean your room' is the biggest complaint I have heard from fathers, mostly in blended families, as they are shuttled aside and told that does not matter and not to push it on the kids. Most men, picking their battles, let it go, and imo, it is the beginnings of a 'lack of discipline' that feeds in to so many other areas of the kids evolving life.
It is laughed off as a vestige of 'toxic masculinity' and the need to 'give orders and be obeyed' and not important instead of being seen as an early and vital component of letting a developing child know that life is full of things you 'have to do' and not just things 'you want to do' and that you, the kid, will not draw those lines.
The amount of fathers i know, just myself, who have thrown up their arms in surrender on issues like that (basic disciplines) is shocking in a way, but not in others, given the times we live in.