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Originally Posted by itshotinvegas
I don't know if it's the same as treatment. I guess I see it as kind of conversion therapy. Our struggles in life is just as important as our successes, IMO. I don't think we understand the human brain enough for this to even being worth thinking about yet, everything affects everything, we for sure won't understand the psychological and psychiatric impact.
It's a treatment.
In my nephews case with the severe cleft lip from birth through his first 7 years of life so far he has been going through these corrective surgeries as his head grows and adjustments are made.
It is definitely his struggle, his trial and his test. He is a great kid but very shy compared to his siblings, and the family believes it largely due to the physical deformity and feeling different. Hopefully he over comes that.
Surviving struggles is good and it does contribute to character but it does not always produce a superior result to not having that challenge.
I would save my child that type of challenge every time.
Are you religious IHIV? It seems to me you are in the camp worried this may be too close to 'god's' area and man should not be playing here?