Most public schools are perfectly fine. I'd much sooner trust a middle-of-the-curve public school over a random homeschooler.
I assume the instances of teaching kindergarteners about chicks with dicks is a few rogue teachers with an odd agenda. People who act like the left is all up in their classrooms putting a woke spin on every subject should maybe ask to sit in on classes one day. The right to do so was enshrined in federal law at one point, but maybe that's no longer a thing.
However, most public schools being fine doesn't change the fact that many are absolutely
not fine, and it's getting so much worse. Milwaukee for example, has maybe 1 in 7 kids with basic grade-appropriate math skills, and 1 in 5 for reading. While we talk about the N-word in 100 year old books and Billy's three mommies, another generation of black Milwaukeeans are getting shoved through the system without basic skills.
They can't even read Huck Finn well enough to get offended by the language in it.
Maybe if we quadruple the per-pupil spending there instead of simply doubling the statewide average, it'll all fall into place.
Also, like tgiggity says, if you go too far to one end of the spectrum, kids will satisfy their curiosities elsewhere. No amount of filth at public school can hold a candle to the wonders of the internet. It's better for society as a whole if you allow early exposure to the world's various oddities and just have a conversation about it at home. I'll still go to bat for most parochial schools, though. Everybody needs a little Jesus in their lives from time to time. As with the spectrum of public schools, most religious ones are on the up and up and will spit out educated and mostly well-behaved kids on the back end if given the opportunity.
WWJD? Jesus wouldn't crack the teacher over the head with a chromebook and call her a **** and then get into a giant brawl because Tasha liked your boyfriend's insta. Why are 4th graders on social media, again? Why do they have phones at all?
15 MPS students were shot and killed last school year in the process of doing things that weren't homework or bible study.