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Originally Posted by Rococo
Cuepee,
In a weird way, I think Cuomo approaches his interactions with women and men with more or less the same mindset. If he thinks that he has leverage or influence, his go-to move is to use that leverage or influence to get what he wants. The mindset sometimes manifests itself differently with women than with men because sometimes he wants something different from the women than he wants from the men. But the general approach is the same.
I don't disagree but even accepting that cannot he not see and recognize the danger, in this point of time, that presents to him?
It is almost like you are saying 'he is trapped by his nature and cannot adapt to new inputs'.
I am sure there is a another Governor (person in power) with a very similar nature to Cuomo who is watching this unfold in real time and thinking 'ya he got caught... busted', and yet we are saying they simply cannot stop themselves??? They are trapped by their nature.
And my questions are mostly rhetorical here as I know, despite this, we will see another and another and another, fall in the exact same way.
I guess it is just the law of really large numbers at play. A percent of men, will be oblivious, regardless of how bright the flashlight is shined in their face, and will continue to do these things that in hindsight they must think 'how could I have been so stupid, in this one area'.
I've been in positions of relative power in my work career where we had a parade of beautiful young women working in our offices many of whom hit on and were happy to chase relationships with the Founders of the tech companies we created and those who managed them. Even at a young age, pre #meetoo I had that as an absolute 'no go' area as I saw it as fraught with risk when I could meet girls outside the work environment easily enough.