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07-26-2023 , 11:58 AM
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Originally Posted by lozen
NO I am tired of Uke's oh you called them her or he when they wanted they and now their going to kill themselves and Trans community has such a high rate of suicide .
This is really weird. Pointing out that the subjects of the vicious transphobic attacks we see ITT are also super high suicide risk I would think would lead someone to have a bit of humanity to maybe tone it the **** down.

We've talked previously in the various threads repeatedly about links between discrimination and violence against trans people and suicide ideation and attempts. To give just one, some data points here to consider: https://williamsinstitute.law.ucla.e...gender-adults/

I genuinely don't know why you get so hung up when I point out the degree to which trans people are often suffering. Why the **** do you think I even care about this topic? It's not to win fake internet points. It's because real humans are really suffering. I care about that....don't you?
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07-26-2023 , 12:09 PM
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Originally Posted by lozen
god forbid we say some trans individuals suffer from a mental health issue
What? Who has ever said you were wrong/bad for saying that SOME trans people suffer from mental health issues?
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07-26-2023 , 12:21 PM
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Originally Posted by Bubble_Balls
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Still waiting for you to explain how you’re determining what’s caricature and what’s not when it comes to smiles.

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Originally Posted by jbouton
This is basic human instinct.
And instincts are never wrong?
Again this is normal and basic human interaction.

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Originally Posted by Trolly McTrollson
The issue is you making bigoted assumptions about the motives of people you don't know or understand.
No the issue is you think you can call out other peoples bigotry because you think you are on the moral high ground

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Originally Posted by uke_master
Again, blatant transphobia like this on a dying Internet forum isn’t a big deal. But what upsets me is that people like wsopfinaltable and jbouton making these types of comments at high schools around the country to young trans kids. We know already how horrific the suicide rate is, this sort of casual dismissal of trans people is heart wrenching in that context.
You have made a false scenario up and then let it lead your emotions. Think about the children.

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Originally Posted by Trolly McTrollson
The important thing is that we not let trans suicide rates discourage us from bullying the **** out of each and every transgender person.
Jordan Peterson says the suicide rates shows the concept of gender ideology and associated movement of changing your gender to suit your discomfort and disorder is the cause of higher suicide rates.

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Originally Posted by Luckbox Inc
Not at sure why it should be assumed that the people telling people they aren't born in the bodies should be blamed for trans suicides, as opposed to the people who are telling people that.

because they made the assumption that since they have the higher moral ground the data must support their view.
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07-26-2023 , 12:51 PM
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Originally Posted by jbouton
Jordan Peterson says the suicide rates shows the concept of gender ideology and associated movement of changing your gender to suit your discomfort and disorder is the cause of higher suicide rates.
Lol, peterson fanboys are the best. You make sure to tidy your room and wear a bad suit too?
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07-26-2023 , 12:53 PM
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Originally Posted by uke_master
Lol, peterson fanboys are the best. You make sure to tidy your room and wear a bad suit too?
No lets avoid the emotion-full contentless ad hominems and have reasonable and sincere dialogue.
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07-26-2023 , 12:59 PM
Weren't you the guy going around telling us how multiple trans people are narcissistic? I think you should maybe shelve the lecture on ad hominems until after your room is tidied like Peterson tells you to do.
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07-26-2023 , 01:01 PM
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Originally Posted by jbouton
Again this is normal and basic human interaction.
Ah, so you are just going to try to hand wave this away.

How do you know that your instinct is leading you to the right conclusions? Instincts lead people to the wrong conclusions all the time.
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07-26-2023 , 01:02 PM
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Originally Posted by uke_master
Lol, peterson fanboys are the best. You make sure to tidy your room and wear a bad suit too?
HE is a clinical psychologist but wait he doesn't concur with your opinions so dismiss him and make fun of him
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07-26-2023 , 01:03 PM
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Originally Posted by uke_master
This is really weird. Pointing out that the subjects of the vicious transphobic attacks we see ITT are also super high suicide risk I would think would lead someone to have a bit of humanity to maybe tone it the **** down.

We've talked previously in the various threads repeatedly about links between discrimination and violence against trans people and suicide ideation and attempts. To give just one, some data points here to consider: https://williamsinstitute.law.ucla.e...gender-adults/

I genuinely don't know why you get so hung up when I point out the degree to which trans people are often suffering. Why the **** do you think I even care about this topic? It's not to win fake internet points. It's because real humans are really suffering. I care about that....don't you?
I don't see any rates on suicide from those that transition and regret it ? Oh right that doesnt fit this groups agenda

Yes I do care about anyone that is considering suicide
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07-26-2023 , 01:04 PM
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Originally Posted by lozen
HE is a clinical psychologist but wait he doesn't concur with your opinions so dismiss him and make fun of him
Come now, I was making fun of peterson fanboys, not peterson. Although if anyone mentioned ITT is truly deserving of the term "narcissist" I think we've found our winner!
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07-26-2023 , 01:05 PM
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Originally Posted by lozen
I don't see any rates on suicide from those that transition and regret it ? Oh right that doesnt fit this groups agenda
Clearly you didn't read the link. Not that this affects the core point mentioned, which is that discrimination and violence against trans people is linked to higher rates of suicide ideation and attempts.
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07-26-2023 , 01:07 PM
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Originally Posted by uke_master
Clearly you didn't read the link. Not that this affects the core point mentioned, which is that discrimination and violence against trans people is linked to higher rates of suicide ideation and attempts.
WE have laws in our society to protect them from that but sorry misgendering someone is not discrimination or violence
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07-26-2023 , 01:09 PM
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Those who had “de-transitioned” at some point were significantly more likely to report suicide thoughts and attempts, both past-year and lifetime, than those who had never “de-transitioned"
^^ what do we infer here, and what is our prescription?

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Elevated prevalence of both lifetime and past-year suicide thoughts and attempts was observed among respondents who had left areligious or spiritual community because they felt rejected, as well as those who reported experiencing religious rejection in the past year. Conversely, respondents who experienced religious acceptance in the past year were markedly less likely to report past-year suicide thoughts and attempts
^^then we want to ask is religious acceptance part of curing trans suicide rates?

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...so as the number of discriminatory experiences increases, the higher prevalence of serious psychological distress acts as a possible pathway for increased suicide thoughts and attempts.
Is this supporting evidence to you that Lia Thomas should be allowed to play in women sports? I mean is it ok if someone finds offense and discrimination, such that they suffer emotional damage, and therefore we must bend the rules of society to their discomfort. Thats an easy question to answer right?
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07-26-2023 , 01:13 PM
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Originally Posted by uke_master
Clearly you didn't read the link. Not that this affects the core point mentioned, which is that discrimination and violence against trans people is linked to higher rates of suicide ideation and attempts.
Actually I did and I am curious why they would not include all statistics . Violence occurs against many groups in society and should be prosecuted to the full extent of the law.
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07-26-2023 , 01:17 PM
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Originally Posted by Bubble_Balls
Ah, so you are just going to try to hand wave this away.

How do you know that your instinct is leading you to the right conclusions? Instincts lead people to the wrong conclusions all the time.
Its not hand waving. Yes it can be wrong. This is how we live our lives with everything we do. We make probabilistic inferences. I fear anyone or any sentiments that suggest you don't use this guard/technique when it comes to someone's claim about their identity.
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07-26-2023 , 01:18 PM
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Originally Posted by uke_master
Weren't you the guy going around telling us how multiple trans people are narcissistic?
Yes I am that guy, and thats not an example of an ad hominem. This is:

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I think you should maybe shelve the lecture on ad hominems until after your room is tidied like Peterson tells you to do.
Lets have reasonable discourse instead. I have never found it from your side.
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07-26-2023 , 01:38 PM
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Originally Posted by jbouton
Its not hand waving. Yes it can be wrong. This is how we live our lives with everything we do. We make probabilistic inferences. I fear anyone or any sentiments that suggest you don't use this guard/technique when it comes to someone's claim about their identity.
I didn’t say you can’t but your inferences are not proof of anything. I don’t think the people here are resisting your observation on smiling for ideological reasons but rather because it’s absurd to think you can look at a smile and make a judgement as to that person’s gender. If I showed you just the smiling mouth of a number of people, some of whom were cis women and some of whom were transwomen, do you honestly think you could determine who was who?
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07-26-2023 , 01:52 PM
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Originally Posted by Bubble_Balls
I didn’t say you can’t but your inferences are not proof of anything. I don’t think the people here are resisting your observation on smiling for ideological reasons but rather because it’s absurd to think you can look at a smile and make a judgement as to that person’s gender. If I showed you just the smiling mouth of a number of people, some of whom were cis women and some of whom were transwomen, do you honestly think you could determine who was who?
You asking as if its a binary question right? My contention is against someone that feels we need to take peoples word for it. That when it comes to gender identity its moral, legal, proper, logical, etc to not question motives and intentions etc. To not machievallian think, to not consider the other person to be possibly nefarious.

I'm not suggesting I am a truth teller. I am not saying I have perfect detection of the sincereness of someone's smile. I am saying it would be absurd to not take on a believe that it is wrong to evaluate someone in this regard.

And also wrong to label me a bigot and transphobic if i think that dylan is faking it for the attention.
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07-26-2023 , 01:57 PM
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Originally Posted by jbouton
I'm not suggesting I am a truth teller. I am not saying I have perfect detection of the sincereness of someone's smile.
There are various online tests you can take but I couldn't find a good one in the brief search I did last night.
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07-26-2023 , 02:03 PM
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Originally Posted by Luckbox Inc
There are various online tests you can take but I couldn't find a good one in the brief search I did last night.
Its a necessary skill. One that the poker field has helped develop. Its would be a scary world in which it was enforced legally and socially that you weren't to use it.
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07-26-2023 , 02:11 PM
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Originally Posted by jbouton
Yes I am that guy, and thats not an example of an ad hominem. This is:



Lets have reasonable discourse instead. I have never found it from your side.
You do realize a majority of the trans community and I mean the QT2SI of LGBQT2SI movement have no interest in discussing trans in women's sports, locker rooms or children receiving medications that castrate them or life altering surgery for minors

You must accept all of these or your anti trans or trans phobic . Their attitude is shut up and drink Bud Light
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07-26-2023 , 02:13 PM
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Originally Posted by uke_master
Weren't you the guy going around telling us how multiple trans people are narcissistic? I think you should maybe shelve the lecture on ad hominems until after your room is tidied like Peterson tells you to do.
Shocking to hear that a person in showbiz is a narcissist.
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07-26-2023 , 02:34 PM
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Originally Posted by lozen
You do realize a majority of the trans community and I mean the QT2SI of LGBQT2SI movement have no interest in discussing trans in women's sports, locker rooms or children receiving medications that castrate them or life altering surgery for minors
I don't know what the stats are but I realize that plenty of trans persons don't act ******ed and mean to simply live a normal life. Thats nothing to argue against.

I'm not anti-trans. Its more what we might usefully call as marxist. But we can name it whatever, it needs to be defined.

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You must accept all of these or your anti trans or trans phobic . Their attitude is shut up and drink Bud Light
I think probably that dylan was planted by competition who saw an exploit. Who would think this would help sales? Its funny because the left, if I can call them that, I think mean to skirt the subject and instead imply that bud light did it because its the right thing to do.

but who would argue it would increase sales? no one.
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07-26-2023 , 02:42 PM
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Originally Posted by jbouton
I don't know what the stats are but I realize that plenty of trans persons don't act ******ed and mean to simply live a normal life. Thats nothing to argue against.

I'm not anti-trans. Its more what we might usefully call as marxist. But we can name it whatever, it needs to be defined.



I think probably that dylan was planted by competition who saw an exploit. Who would think this would help sales? Its funny because the left, if I can call them that, I think mean to skirt the subject and instead imply that bud light did it because its the right thing to do.

but who would argue it would increase sales? no one.
Agreed but its that a certain % that do that hurt it for everyone and would include the trans athletes in that as well as the extreme protesters I would also say folks like Dylan Mulvaney hurt the movement or ideology
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07-26-2023 , 02:46 PM
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Originally Posted by jbouton
I think probably that dylan was planted by competition who saw an exploit.
Are you actually saying that you think some beer company told Dylan to pretend to be trans for years so that she could be picked up to do an ad by Bud Lite in order to tank their sales?
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