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Originally Posted by Trolly McTrollson
I can't even tell what the heck he's trying to say. "maternal oppressor vs oppressed narratives leading to a dismissal of any validity to a paternal perspective of responsibility" is straight-up word salad.
Re read my original post itt
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Originally Posted by juan valdez
The divide between left and right on this forum and in public discourse can by summed up between maternal and paternal perspectives battling it out. I can go in to more detail about maternal vs paternal but it gets kind of tedious. Anyways, both are equal and valid perspectives. I believe its the dialogue and battle between the two perspectives that synthesizes thinking on a societal level. People are actually terrible at thinking and thinking requires taking both sides seriously and having an internal battle to shape ones beliefs. People are terrible at thinking and blindly go with their temperamental biases. As social animals we are corrected/socialized by others. Less so when we operate in a bubble. People get very weird when isolated and don't get any social feedback
What I believe we are seeing now is the left moving further left (maternal) and the very vocal far left dominating the conversation. The problem with the core values in maternal and paternal behavior is that when they get off balance they become pathological and kind of spiral out of control. I think this is the state of a growing portion of the left. They are just way off balance with maternal values.
On average men and women are different psychologically. Women are higher in empathy. This serves them well and is likely adapted to their role with infants. Babies cry and you don't judge them. They are always right. You empathize. If someone is making a baby cry, they are always wrong. They are the oppressor. As a baby transitions to an adult you empathize less when they cry or anything else, and you judge them. That transition happens more and more as they get older. Our legal system even recognizes this with minors. That is an increase in paternal role.
Someone totally off balance in empathy will coddle their child to it's detriment. Think of the 30 year old in their moms basement. We naturally use the
moms basement archetype because we recognize the pattern even if we can't usually articulate it. Empathy and a lack of someone holding the 30 year old accountable is the path to their demise. If you watch the intervention show about drug addicts its the same storyline over and over. The experts hosting the intervention need to counsel and coach the family in how to deal with their addicted family member. Its almost always someones empathy that is enabling them to live the addict lifestyle. The experts actually have to teach and coach the family to set up boundaries and rules so they don't perpetuate and support the addicts lifestyle. How to enforce the rules and not cave. We also see excess empathy in stories 200lb 4 year olds. They cry and cry for food and the mother just can't say no
There's plenty of research showing we vote our temperament. Go find and take a big 5 personality test online. At the end they will ask you political questions. Feminine/maternal/empathy obviously tracks to further left political leanings. If you look at my original post I mention "thinking" and "balance". A good start is self awareness
Empathy actually doesn't solve that many problems. We can apply it to just about every discussion taking place on the forum at the moment. IIRC it was lapidator who asked very straight forward questions about the border a few weeks ago. He was met with hostility and disdain. The left doesn't and won't set a limit or numbers on different forms of immigration. They don't actually propose solutions. They can't really. You are going to have to set a boundary and exclude people eventually. At that point you won't be woke enough. They aren't focused on solutions ect, they empathize with the oppressed showing up at the border and they are enraged when an oppressor oppresses them. You can go to the antifa thread and see the disdain for cops and the "bootlickers" AKA oppressors