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Originally Posted by Bobo Fett
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Originally Posted by Meisner
You made a comment that “trans” children reach an age where they should be mandated to no longer compete with their “identified” gender and matriculate into joining teams of their real biological gender. Multiple times you’ve been asked what that age is. You refuse to answer. As far as I’m concerned your comments do not matter until you answer that simple, direct question.
LOL, awesome. You're fine having a conversation until you don't have a response, so you then fall back on 'you didn't give me an answer I liked about a different issue so I won't talk about this one anymore'. Hopefully you at least learned something about non-binary people in our brief exchange.
Just to clarify our past conversation for others, that Meisner has not all that accurately summed up:
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Originally Posted by Bobo Fett
To be clear, I don't know that there are many, if any, who have argued in this forum that there should be no rules around transgender participation in high level competitive sport. Most of the debate I've seen here has been around when that should start - IE whether there are ages/skill levels where we don't worry about that.
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Originally Posted by Meisner
What age should it start? That makes zero sense. So, you’re going to allow a boy pretend to be a girl, make him think he’s a girl, etc and allow him to play sports with the girls until a predetermined age and then tell him what, “Jones on you. You’re not really a girl so you cannot play sports with the girls any longer. Ha ha!”
When I was a kid I played co-ed soccer and there was t-ball that was mixed, but then the different kids went on to play sports with just their own genders. If it’s not broken, why fix it?
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Originally Posted by Bobo Fett
More than happy to continue the conversation there, where it's been had many times. But he won't get a specific age from me there either (although I have some thoughts I'd share as to a possible range), as I think it's going to depend on the sport, the school environment, and other factors, and best left to those directly involved to determine. People coming in from the outside and mandating that "X shalt not be allowed until age Y in all schools in our state" is where the problems start, rather than end.
The fact that this is a complicated discussion, and one that there is a dedicated thread for already, is why I don't want to bother getting into it in this thread.
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Originally Posted by Meisner
You advocate justifying a child’s imagination and saying, “You’re right Timmy. You are a girl. Oops, I’m sorry to dead name you.” And let that boy play girls sports. Then, at some predetermined age say to the child, “LOL. Just kidding. You’re actually a boy. Sorry about those hormones we gave you and the bottom surgery. Now you have to play soccer with the boys.”
No, of course that's not what I'm advocating. If this discussion is just going to be a game where you take what I say and find the most extreme way to interpret it while adding things in that aren't related to my point or what I said, this isn't going to last for long. I think this may be a waste of time, but I'll assume you're not trolling and answer sincerely.
When kids are young, let them play on whatever team they want. Who gives a ****? What is the harm being done? If Timmy now identifies as Jane and wants to play on the girls' team, why would we want to stop her from doing so? But there's probably not a lot of point going further in this without clearing one thing up - if your mindset is that this whole thing is ****ed up and Jane shouldn't be allowed/encouraged to even identify as a girl in the first place, then we'll probably have to agree to disagree on that and leave it there.
As to your "Sorry about those hormones we gave you and the bottom surgery.", I'm not sure how you think that even fits in here. If someone has surgically and hormonally changed their sex, I can't see why they wouldn't be permitted to play on the team that matched that sex, at any level.