No worries. We've all been there. I'm happy to help.
I don't think the card you deposited with will be necessary. A scanned or photo copy of a license or some other form of ID and something like a utility bill that has your address on it from within the last few months will likely be all that they require. Since you used your wife's card they might require you to have her information on those items, but I'm not positive.
I highly recommend that you take a little time to learn about using crypto. It's not that hard to learn how to use and there are several benefits. I assure you that it'll be worth your time to learn. Not only is it quicker than other methods for transactions, but this network has recently been offering bonuses when you are willing to make deposits with it instead of other methods.