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Originally Posted by Wiki
You're just getting your panties in a bunch over nothing.
You cannot emasculate the English language by removing every word that has negative connotations because otherwise you'll end up with nothing to do the job.
Where would you draw the line?
Could you say someone was an idiot or would there be a danger of upsetting the seriously idiotic?
The reason some of us (quite a lot in my experience of this forum) find '******' acceptable - in the context of this forum - is that it has never been an official description of someone suffering some affliction.
Using words that have been so used 'spastic', 'mongol', etc certainly would be unacceptable as would using words that have racial connotations and are associated with long term racist usage.
I thought maybe I'd been mistaken on this, but on searching for it, Wikipedia would appear to confirm my first thoughts:
'As of 2010, the Special Olympics, Best Buddies and over 100 other organizations are striving to help eliminate the use of the "r-word" (analogous to the "n-word") in everyday conversation.'
'In the UK, it is very important to understand that the verbs (?) '******ation' and '******ed' (along with private usage of '******') are highly, and completely unacceptable in both professional and personal situations - and it is deemed just as offensive as many other stereotypical pejoratives used in the United States. A BBC poll conducted in the United Kingdom came to the conclusion that '******' was the most offensive disability-related word.'
I genuinely thought the word became unacceptable many years ago and if not, it's clear from the two quotes above that it is certainly thought of as derogatory and in the process of being phased out.
As I said, many words have become offensive which you may not have once considered to be so, you have to be respectful enough of other people to stop using such words, WHETHER YOU BELIEVE THEM TO BE OFFENSIVE OR NOT and WHETHER THEY ARE DIRECTED AT THAT PARTICULAR GROUP OF PEOPLE OR NOT.
We live in a tolerant, accepting society and there is no need to be using a word which could be considered offensive, when there are 10 or 100 other words which aren't offensive which could easily be used instead.