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Originally Posted by bigtex21
Just where does the tipping stop are you supposed to tip everyone that makes minimum wage just because their employer is too cheap to pay more and if dealers actually want a higher wage why do they keep voting against unionizing?
I don't like the process, where some jobs are magically deemed tip-worthy and some aren't. I worked in the back of a restaurant and busted my ass more than the servers, and I never saw a dime of tips... It's "fair" because I could have become a waiter, I suppose.
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Originally Posted by bigtex21
And again can someone answer this:
If it is customary to tip a wait person 15%. If I order a $50 steak and coffee the tip would be $7.50 but if I order a $10.00 steak and coffee the tip would be $1.50 so what did the wait person do differently to earn a larger tip they both delivered the same amount of food and drink?
Are you asking a question on the first part?
IS it customary to tip 15% for standard service -- then yes, I suppose that's a reasonable baseline although it varies by region and type of restaurant, yes. [A buffet or fast-casual, for example, may have a smaller or no tip...]
To the second part -- are you asking WHY we do it, or are you asking for an explanation as to WHY the tip on a $200 bottle of wine is more than the tip on a $40 bottle of wine since they both required the same amount of effort?
The answer in both cases is -- because that's the custom, and because that's the tacit social agreement. If you don't believe such an agreement exists, then don't pay it.
...but you can't possibly be asking what the server did differently, since we both know that the answer to that question is: "Nothing."
Are you trying to make us understand something you think we don't understand?
What's next? Are you going to explain that shaving in the morning is a silly custom too? Well, we agree.
...lets bring back hats for men too. Those were at least practical.
The server at the Chicken and Waffle joint down the street gets a lot less in tips than the server at the Steak and Lobster joint up the street here, and the C&W server probably busts their ass a lot more. But we all knew that before anyone typed it out.
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It's a dumb contract, but we all signed it. If you believe you're not party to the social tipping contract, then you're not bound by it.