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Originally Posted by borg23
there are some wonderful people who are dealers.
there are some absolute scum who are dealers. fortunately not a lot of scum.
i am however sick and tired of terrible dealers who are beyond entitled or dealers who complain if they "only" make a few hundred off of a bbj.
i've heard dealers complaining to other dealers about "only" getting 3-5 dollars in a hand at another table when they tap in and of course it's almost always a bad dealer who can't even keep track of the pot correctly.
i really wish more people tipped dealers based on merit but that isn't going to happen.
Personally, I maintain the position that if you are not good at dealing the game, then it should be unacceptable for you to expect players to tip you.
If a dealer isn't good, it is okay as long as they can get through a down without making mistakes too frequently, and genuinely care about the game, and getting better at the job — something you can determine based on their attitude, during their time in the box.
Everybody's gotta start somewhere, and I was awful when I first started dealing many years ago, but I have a sense of pride when it comes to poker. There was no way I wasn't going to strive to get better, especially because of the fact that I gained a much deeper appreciation and higher level of respect for dealers who were remarkable, because I had the realization of just how long it might take to get to that to level, and that if you just do a bad job for a really long time, but are not bothered enough to learn a better way, you'll just get really good at doing a bad job.
For me, I get more pleasure and sense of appreciation from a stiff giving me an honest compliment, telling me that I'm a really good dealer, than I do from him giving me his $1.
I get annoyed and aggravated when I'm busting my ass dealing hi/lo and split pot games, keeping the entire 2-rack pot in perfect stacks of 20, stopping you from mucking your hand because you missed that you have a live 4 and get half the pot with the only qualifying lo, and nobody not only tips nothing, but treats me like crap, throws cards at me, calls me names under their breath, whatever.
If this exact situation happened, but people were pleasant to deal with, and made me feel appreciated, i would give no ****s about not getting tipped.
you don't want to tip, whatever, fine, that's your business and you are entitled to tip as little or as much as you want
But when a dealer pushes into the box, is clearly giving it a 100% so they provide you with a good game, and is putting in the effort to do things as good as or better than the last dealer who was there (if they are able to), then, it's a real spit in the face when players act disrespectful to that dealer.
You would be surprised how far a genuine "hey dealer, thanks for doing a great job on this down for us." goes.
I once had the biggest stiff in the room, who is known for not tipping anyone ever, but is well known in the poker world because of his and his relatives successes in the game, watch a hand i was dealing at his table. he was not even involved in the hand. I had to efficiently chop and ship a 6-way all-in hand (5 different pots by the river) each to the right player, having all of the money correct, maintaining countable stacks of 20 for all of the pots, and dealing with incomplete bets and remembering who was in which pot, on the river, in a hi/lo split pot game.
By some miracle, I made 0 mistakes, and finished up the hand swiftly.
This guy, the stiff, not even in the hand, stops the action in the next hand i deal, says to me, "Young man, I have to tell you that I don't think many dealers could do what you just did. That was very impressive." and tosses me a $1. I think 90% of the time, I'm going to make some type of mistake in that hand, small or big, who knows. but I guess was in the zone that day and had my rhythm going, and got lucky.
I never cashed that chip, and as you can see, it made such an impression on me, that I'll never forget it.
Things like that make a dealer feel appreciated and significantly affect their attitude.
Last edited by dinesh; 04-27-2019 at 03:57 AM.