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Originally Posted by callipygian
The disproportionate amount of player's blame compared to dealer's blame is disturbing.
If I were a spiteful dealer dealing to you guys, I would definitely be sending you and extra cards in the SB whenever I see your guards down to highlight that it is at least as much the dealer's fault.
The dealers get paid to be greater than 99.99% vigilant. That's their job.
Players should protect their cards, sure, but are ultimately there to have fun. It's unreasonable to expect that you should clutch your hand like it's the One Ring because the dealer will refuse responsibility unless you block an extra card midair. Or, perhaps more accurately, games that force players to behave like this are going to be short on fun players.
This has nothing to do with blame. I've been dealing for years, and the number of players who have thin skins when it comes to feeling like they're being blamed or called out is almost laughable. At least a few times a week I'll try to help or correct a player for something innocent like not protecting their cards or acting out of turn and they'll get super-defensive about it.
I'm not there to call out every little transgression in an aggressive manner but some players can't handle being identified as doing the least little thing wrong and are unable to accept constructive criticism.
If you're in the small blind (or any other position at the table) and you have too many cards it's an illegal hand and your hand is killed. It's in every rule book of every card room I've ever worked in or played in. It doesn't mean you're a cheater or a bad person.
And it's your job to protect your hand. It's your money on the table. Players make mistakes. Dealers make mistakes. These things happen and we're not going to punish 8 other players at the table or change the rules just because the guy in the SB wasn't paying attention to the game.
And as a dealer, if I'm constantly dealing out illegal hands I'd expect that the floor will notice it and that I'll be reprimanded or worse if it becomes a habit. And if they notice that I'm constantly putting one or two players who I don't like in these situations I'll expect to be disciplined appropriately for it, up to being fired.