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Originally Posted by dinesh
rules are rules, but also that there are things we should let go of.
They key word I agree with here is "we," in that we as players should definitely accept relaxed enforcement of minor rules violations in cases where some kind of judgement is required/requested.
String bets are a good example. There are obvious string raises, like a new player emulating what he sees on TV and saying "I'll see your 20 and raise you 40." They flat out need to learn that's blatantly against the rules. But then on the flip side there are people (even experienced players who regularly play at another room) who make two stacks just behind the betting line and push them over thr line simulatneously not realizing the betting line doesn't count and forward motion does.
In the latter case, your willingness as a player to call out the rules "violation" should depend on the stakes (and overall context of the game) as well as the severity of the violation. If it's clear they just didn't know and/or there's a reasonable explanation for what they did (like you understand your room has an uncommon rule), it's totally fine and even beneficial to waive off the dealer or floor. Or make the correction without asking for rules enforcement, e.g., "just so you know, the rule here is forward motion, I know you meant to raise so I'm fine with it but you should be careful."
Everyone has a knee jerk reaction to being on the receiving end of a rules violation (or even an angle). But there's nothing wrong with letting someone get a minor advantage over you once in a while, especially when at small stakes it's very easy to run up a huge skill gap.
I'm not super concerned about getting cheated out of a large pot. The whole point of being good at poker is to put your opponent in "damned if you do, damned if you don't" situations, and not to end up in scenarios where you're pulling your hoodie over your face and praying to sweet sweet Jesus that they don't make the decision that will destroy your session/week/month/year.