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Originally Posted by pfapfap
When everybody sees something differently than you, it's time to at least pause and re-assess.
You say the dealer wasn't taken aback, and that he got over it. How do you know? You're in a position of power being aggressive and insulting to a service worker. It's his job to smile and nod at you, and not argue back. He is not allowed to physically leave the interaction. You're not on equal footing, and you're abusing your situation. Most people don't take lightly a hostile work environment, yet you continue to blow it off as no big deal.
It's hard to reply to this post because it's just other-worldly to me. I've written 6 replies and deleted them because there's just too much to address, and it's impossible not to sound condescending or upset. Suffice it to say you and I have polar opposite views, experiences, and biases concerning these matters, which is fine.
My OP was asking whether or not I should be upset at the dealer sending easy money away from our table, and I was appreciative of the input on that.
Last edited by LowSociety; 11-19-2014 at 10:36 PM.