Of course you're right and the floor is wrong. Only thing you could have done better would be to not lose your temper. If it were me, I'd definitely clear the air with the player, away from the table. "Look, there's a little rule you obviously weren't aware of, let me explain it to you....I know you don't believe me, especially since that floorman didn't know the rule either, but a few years ago, it came up in one of the WSOP telecasts, and people were talking about it for weeks...but most importantly, I didn't scold you, I didn't accuse you of anything--heck, I never even said a word to you! All I did was call the floorman over here, explain to him what happened, and give him a chance to do something about it. He chose to do nothing, and that's fine with me! I'm not looking to be the Poker Sheriff! But most of these floors are real fussy about these tournament rules, they don't give me any leeway, they don't want me to handle it, they WANT me to call them over, so what else can I do?"
Even if the player thinks you're nuts and that you're making up rules now, he'll still calm right down, out of respect for you manning up and hashing this thing out with him.
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Originally Posted by psandman
I'm not sure if you and I are talking about the same thing here. I am not talking about a "sweater" who is not in the game but sita behind a player and watches. Though I do not see it mentioned in the TDA rules that seems to be fairly standardly not permitted in tournament play.
But if we are talking about the same thing ..... are you saying that your room simply doesn't allow it or that your room considers it be exposure of a hand subject to penalty under the above discussed rule against exposure? (My position is not that i have never heard of a rule against it ----- but that i have never heard it considered to be the subject of the rule above)
I'm talking about letting the player next to you sweat your hand when he doesn't have cards. When the TD sees this, he races right over and lets the players know that isn't allowed, and asks that they please don't do it again. They don't issue threats involving penalties, because they don't NEED to--the friendly warning always suffices. I'm sure if the behavior continued after the warning, then the topic of a possible penalty would have to come up, but I've never seen it get that far.