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Originally Posted by PIHKAL
There's little guarantee that if he was to score this $1100 that all would end up in the hands of those who are owed if any, imo. I believe I am helping him by not helping him in this spot.
This line, imo, is the crux of the whole thread right here. You need to really figure out why you think this is true. It seems to me that you just wanted to avoid the situation that you think is inevitable when he doesn't pay back any of the money he owes people? That may be true, but it may not be true. Or maybe you really wanted to do him harm?
I know it's not exactly like you're ripping 1.1K out of his hands and flushing it down the toilet because he doesn't even know about it, and of course it IS on him to have known. I'm trying to think of an analogy...maybe something like some guy in front of you doesn't hold the door for you when leaving some expensive store and you notice him setting his bag on the roof of his car while he unlocks his door and forgets the stuff as he gets in...and you don't tell him because "**** that guy, am I right?". You could have easily said "hey, your stuff" but instead, with zero actual gain on your part, you let it happen for no other benefit than your little smug-self-congratulatory-feeling that you will share with no one but yourself.
I dunno. Seems pretty pointless to me
If you really don't like the guy, just remove him from your life.