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Originally Posted by Tash
Is poker really worth more to you than she is? If so, then she isn't worth much to you because turly having someone in your life is worth much more than you are making by playing.
Are you dating the OP? Your argument is incredibly one-sided. Sounds more like the OPs GF is saying "do what I want to do, and nothing of what you want to do." What happens when the OP wants to go out with his buddies once a month? Does this happen only if it pleases her majesty?
Relationships are all about give and take, and from the OP, it sounds like this relationship is all give and no take. Trying to change a person, or stopping them from doing something they enjoy doing will only lead to resentment, which of course leads to breaking up. Ultimatums are bad, DUCY?
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Originally Posted by Tash
Not that I expect you to understand that, so we'll try using man-logic instead.
Logic is sexless.
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Originally Posted by Tash
You have a choice: Poker or Poke Her. Which one would a real man choose?
A real man would ensure his testicles remain firmly between his legs, and not in his significant other's purse. Holding your significant other hostage with sex is incredibly immature, and I wouldn't want to be in a relationship with a person like that.
OP, gtfo quickly, while you still have time. This is not the kind of woman you want to date. A person worth dating would talk to you about their concerns and try to understand why you like playing poker, rather than just tossing out a blanket "stop playing because I said so."
tl;dr Grown ups talk about their problems. You want to date a grownup, not a child.