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But you do virgin shame the women.
No I'm not. There's nothing whatsoever that is wrong with a female virgin. However, it is quite likely that a female virgin is fairly unattractive considering that women can easily get sex.
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You do obese shame the women.
No, I'm simply informing you that I don't find sexually unattractive people attractive.
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You do slut shame women
Where? I've told people repeatedly that I'm more than happy for anyone to sleep with whomever they choose.
However, you are a complete hypocrite if you're in favour of
1) judging men for being virgins (judging men for the number of people they've slept with)
2) protecting women from slut-shaming (saying that you
shouldn't judge women for how many people they've slept with.)
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"I found out that she had a bf and was essentially cheating on him with me and I did find that very off-putting."
Are you serious? She was cheating on her boyfriend (I found this out *after* I had been spending time with her by the way) and I'm supposed to *not* find this attractive?
Do you not see cheating as a
bad thing?
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And what I find especially funny you do geek shame the women.
My girlfriend in my first year at university was very geeky and I found it fantastically attractive. To date she's the girl I've felt the strongest feelings for.
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In this context I also do find interesting question you directed at me in sex is weird thread.
Keep in mind, that you have no idea, how I look like. But you still imply with this question: 1. That I can not attract interest of a certain type of man. 2. That I do find intellect sexy, only because I can not attract bad aggressive boys with sexy body.
No I haven't. If I believed either of those things, I'd tell you. I am asking you a question; tell me the answer and we can continue.
If I believed either of those things, I'd tell you that they are what I believe.
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The second point means that YOU do find overweight shy nerds less worthy of sexual interest from women. YOU do find that given a choice every woman should choose aggressive bad boy.
This is based on the false premise of you believing that I am implying anything whatsoever with a simply question.
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I mean this gap between you fiercly protecting overweight shy nerd guys in your surrounding and implying that I do discriminate against them and at the same time being yourself really discriminatory against overweight shy nerd girls and boys and against girls who are attracted to nerd guys is amusing.
I do nothing of the sort.
All you've done is taken what I've said, jumped to whatever conclusion you feel suits your narrative and then said words to the effect of "ah-ha! Well you say X, but you mean Y!"
Both groups (male and female) are discriminated and deserving of protection.
Only females actually *get* that protection.
Males should but don't. I hope to help change that.