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Old 10-30-2017, 09:55 AM   #2901
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Old 10-30-2017, 01:13 PM   #2902
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Yea that was a big reason i didnt try to have sex with her
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Old 11-01-2017, 02:50 AM   #2903
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Good party story.
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Old 11-06-2017, 06:20 PM   #2904
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i’m so over it. I dont like making posts like these, but depression and anxiety arent fun. I have been battling hard for a year now and sometimes you just run out of energy. There are good days and then other days when everything just catches up with you and it’s hard to take a breath. Feeling crappy for no reason is hard to explain to people who dont know. Trying to pretend like you’re not feeling crappy so you dont alienate anymore people in your life is even harder.

It's not super severe yet but I can feel myself slipping. Last week was super stressful but my anxiety seems better at least. The good news is I know there are people out there that care about me and that's comforting, because a lot of the time it doesn't feel that way.
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Old 11-06-2017, 06:37 PM   #2905
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I hope things start to improve for you soon. I think that is one of the key things I try and hang onto when depression kicks in hard is that it will pass. Wearing a happy mask or even just a neutral one is exhausting I agree. Are there things you have done in the past that have helped you? Having some strategies at hand is always a good thing. Take care J.
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Old 11-07-2017, 01:01 AM   #2906
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Hugs!

You are long enough in this to not give you any advice. But ... This thing that VR is doing. I am also doing it to big extend. A todo list for small stuff and checking off the items on it. It gives one the feeling of control and accomplishment, and that in turn reduces the anxiety.
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Old 11-08-2017, 12:03 AM   #2907
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i was just reading a little bit of this thread and looking at how far I’ve come since its beginning and how many views and posts this this thread has, and i really appreciate all the support i’ve gotten over the years.
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Old 11-08-2017, 11:41 AM   #2908
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Old 11-10-2017, 04:39 AM   #2909
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i was just reading a little bit of this thread and looking at how far I’ve come since its beginning and how many views and posts this this thread has, and i really appreciate all the support i’ve gotten over the years.
This post is one of the big differences between JM and MLYLT. JM.
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Old 11-10-2017, 08:29 AM   #2910
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Old 11-10-2017, 06:42 PM   #2911
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I wish everyone in this world had the level of self awareness that you do

Good luck with everything, you really are doing fantastically at life imo!
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Old 11-12-2017, 03:35 AM   #2912
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pretty sure you don't like me, but put me down for #teamjmakin too.

and how you put depression, that it's hard to explain to people that "I don't want to be bothered and no, I don't really know why" is a sharp way of putting it. especially when followed with, "but I have to try to put on a show so I don't alienate even more people"...

feel you.
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Old 11-14-2017, 01:52 AM   #2913
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hey thanks guys I really appreciate it a lot, believe me.

wiper, lol, i don't dislike you, idk where you're getting that vibe from but I'm really sorry if I made it seem that way. My posting has a sarcastic bite to it sometimes that waxes and wanes depending on my levels of stress. the saltier i am usually the more stressed i am.
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Old 11-14-2017, 01:54 AM   #2914
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I got an 81% pre-curve on the midterm I thought I bombed. Idk how that happened but I'm sure my therapist will find it absolutely hilarious for some reason, she always laughs at my test scores.

my anxiety is being handled much better this quarter, and I'm in pretty positive spirits for no good reason today. Looking forward to this week even though more projects are looming.

i guess I feel good because I got through the first major hurdle with bad study habits, without much effort while also having a bad mental state.
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Old 11-14-2017, 01:57 AM   #2915
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Also changing my mental attitude to rather than trying to ace every course, I'm just trying to pass every course and setting the bar down there. My therapist always chides me about how I place my self standards at 2 or 3 sigmas above the mean, when I really should just compare myself to the mean.

So when I get an 81% on a test I was just trying to pass, I'm really elated because I did better than expected and if I had the other mindset, I would've been super pissed off that I didn't get a high B+ or an A. Seems like I accidentally adopted this better mindset in the last few months. My therapist is really good
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Old 11-25-2017, 05:43 PM   #2916
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Oh man last night after my hs reunion i hooked up with my close japanese chick friend, and we have yet to talk about it
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Old 11-25-2017, 10:30 PM   #2917
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I mean, it *was* just yday...

also, congrats Jmakinmeangry's debauchery and general idiocy blog
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Old 11-26-2017, 02:20 AM   #2918
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Was she the crazy baby one?
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Old 11-26-2017, 11:21 AM   #2919
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She isn’t crazy, she’s really nice. Pretty shy though. But yea, she wants a baby


It was probably a huge mistake on my part because she’s been a close friend of mine for like 7 years. There’s always been sexual tension but she’s flat out rejected me before. Not really sure what’s going on now or what to do... first i thought it was just the alcohol, but in the AM the next day she was like holding my hand and cuddling me really hard, didnt really feel like just a hookup to me but now i’m not really sure what to do. I brought it up yesterday and she seems fine with what happened

I have so many weird emotions right now. I’ve never hooked up with a close friend. I’m really nervous about it. I’m sure she’s got similar feelings but she’s always been a little closed off so it’s hard to tell what’s going on with her.

My HS reunion was awesome though

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Old 11-26-2017, 03:33 PM   #2920
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What are you going to name the kid?
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Old 11-26-2017, 04:42 PM   #2921
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This is just some trouble-making speculation and not really my advice, but....hooking up with a non-crazy woman who you've liked and respected for 7 years may not be the worst possible future for you just because she wants a baby. Looking into the multi-verses at your alternate futures I see a bunch where totally insane women who you wish you could never see again end up having your children.

No offense. Just based on some of the history itt.

I'm not saying make it happen, but if it does happen, keep in mind that it could have been a lot worse.
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Old 11-26-2017, 04:45 PM   #2922
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Wear a toggy, problem solved.

Liking her is a big advance on lusting after a psycho because she's great in bed.
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Old 11-26-2017, 05:25 PM   #2923
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This is just some trouble-making speculation and not really my advice, but....hooking up with a non-crazy woman who you've liked and respected for 7 years may not be the worst possible future for you just because she wants a baby. Looking into the multi-verses at your alternate futures I see a bunch where totally insane women who you wish you could never see again end up having your children.

No offense. Just based on some of the history itt.

I'm not saying make it happen, but if it does happen, keep in mind that it could have been a lot worse.
None taken, i’m well aware of this, it’s what happened to my dad and alwas just figured inevitably it would happen to me too. I’ve honestly been really lucky so far that it hasn’t happened.

But honestly I’m nearly 30 so it’s possibly Time to start thinking about these things even if I’m not planning on doing it anytime soon. I do like her but I’m trying to slow myself down so I don’t get weird or scare her
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Old 11-26-2017, 05:37 PM   #2924
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Try talking to her.
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Old 11-26-2017, 06:00 PM   #2925
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None taken, i’m well aware of this, it’s what happened to my dad and alwas just figured inevitably it would happen to me too. I’ve honestly been really lucky so far that it hasn’t happened.

But honestly I’m nearly 30 so it’s possibly Time to start thinking about these things even if I’m not planning on doing it anytime soon. I do like her but I’m trying to slow myself down so I don’t get weird or scare her
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Try talking to her.
Definitely one step at a time.

My real advice is not to have a baby with anyone who you're not as sure as can be that you want to be around for the rest of your life or something close to that.

I wouldn't be put off by her wanting a baby unless you're really sure you never want kids. I doubt she's really so baby crazy that you can't take some time to figure out if you really like being together as more than friends before she needs to get impregnated.

I do have a couple anecdotes of friends of my wife who at 30 or so made some bad decisions because they got baby fever. Like Jalfrezi said, don't forget the toggy.
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