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Originally Posted by Mr.mmmKay
Why did you join the army?
Inertia combined with desperation.
I had always felt a certain attraction to the military. I can't really explain why - I just liked military commercials as a kid. Remember those "be all that you can be" commercials? I was like 8 when I told my mom I was going to join the Army. She, fairly wisely I think, basically just said "we'll see" and never tried to talk me out of it (or encourage it).
This fits a general trend of being drawn to male dominated things. I was always the girl trying to play football with my brother rather than playing with dolls with my sister. Also very much to my parents credit, they never tried to make me into a girly girl (although they did, much to my constant disgust, force me to wear dresses to church), so when I was constantly climbing trees and playing sports (unlike my more sedate sister) they just let me do my thing.
I sort of forgot about the military interest in high school; I never ruled it out, it just didn't really occur to me as I was trying to figure out what I wanted to do in college. I picked criminology, probably because I watched too many episodes of Cops and it seemed like a cool job to me. Again, the draw of a male dominated field. When I got to college I discovered my university had an ROTC program, and I actually took classes with them my first two years. My junior year I had to sign up officially or drop those classes, and I came very close to signing - for the first five weeks I did the full ROTC rigamarole - but before I signed the papers I got too stressed out over carrying a full normal course load plus ROTC stuff (upper classman are expected to be leaders, and I hadn't done the summer actual Army training the underclassman who were signed normally did). Basically I buckled under the pressure, and I didn't see the point in adding all that extra work and not be guaranteed even a regular Army slot (only two candidates in a class are guaranteed to go regular Army and not reserve) so I dropped the course.
I finished my criminology degree in '98 and got employed in my home county as a deputy sheriff (and part time as a town cop in my home town). I applied to several larger police departments around the country (and almost got hired in Seattle) because I had promised myself I wouldn't get stuck back in my home town when I got out of college - if you saw my home town you'd understand, it's Hickville farm country in upstate NY. Nothing happens there. I had one felony arrest when one drunk guy beat up another drunk guy. Everything else I investigated was car-deer accidents, warrant pick-ups, and the occasional misdemeanor traffic stop.
So I was sitting in my patrol car in the winter of '00. It was the dead of night - I usually worked the midnight shift - and near to when I was getting off, so it was like time of the night where it's still pitch black but there's an edge of morning creeping into the sky. I was tired and probably half asleep, and it just suddenly hit me. What the **** am I doing here? Why am I doing EXACTLY what I said I wasn't going to do and rotting in this tiny little hick county? Surely there's some other place in the country where I can be a cop, someplace where **** actually happens?
I went to talk to a recruiter the next week. The way I saw it, I didn't really have enough money to travel around looking for different cop jobs, and some of the closest cities to me had residency requirements. But I could join the Army and be a cop on a base anywhere in the world!
The recruiter was basically drooling as soon as he knew a little about me - I fulfilled one of his quotas for the entire year, being college educated, but only if I went enlisted rather than officer. So, not shockingly, he lied to me and told me I had to go enlisted first, then could apply to go to OCS after basic and AIT. After I maxed out the ASVAB (Armed Services Vocational Aptitude Battery), I was offered any job field I wanted that wasn't closed to women. But since I had a degree in criminology and was a cop when I enlisted, I didn't even consider any other options - I requested the MPs.
I was nervous about telling my parents - I mean I was old enough to live my own life, but I wasn't sure how my mom in particular would feel about me joining the military. She was pretty cool about it though - again, as long as her kids are happy, she's pretty relaxed about how they get there. Other than my dad and my uncle giving me a little flak about joining the Army over the Air Force (they are both AF vets), everyone was pretty supportive.
I didn't find out that my recruiter lied about the officer thing until I was already through basic. I think he felt slightly guilty, because he also got me a hefty bonus that I had no idea I was receiving until I was reviewing my paperwork one day. 12k. Pretty sure that doesn't cover 5 years differential between officer and enlisted pay, though.