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Originally Posted by Fabian
The goals I seek, I told myself, are related to getting slimmer, more muscular, and more attractive to the ladies. Achieving those goals, surely, I told myself, will lead to attracting more attractive ladies, which, surely, I told myself, will lead to a more happy Fabian. Well, maybe.
For quite a long time, I've been struggling to find a balance in my life, when it comes to all things related to body image, to my self worth (as derived from societal norms and pressures)
Hi
Not sure if you're still checking into the blog section from time to time - hope school is going better for you now that you've had more time to adjust ...
Was wondering if you sometimes feel pressure to try to be what you believe others want you to be? Is there anything you feel passionate about in life - if not, maybe if you can somehow shed that feeling of expectation, maybe you might feel more free to focus on trying to find stuff you feel passionate about in life?
After that, the girls will follow
Maybe sometimes a bit harder when one's smart, because the pool of similar people is smaller - and then sometimes people may have physical preferences like liking blondes or whatever ...
Cliffs: There's someone for everyone
But maybe happiness comes from within?
GL with school Fabian!!