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Originally Posted by golddog
Sigh. I'm sorry you and Mrs. Boat have to go through this.
Also sad to hear your fishing adventures are on hold due to the price of gas. Always enjoyed seeing pics of the monsters you hauled out of the deep, and I imagine it gave you a chance to get away from whatever in real life for a little while.
Thanks. Not too bad really. I'm completely disconnected and my wife is doing much better at distancing herself.
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Originally Posted by Ray Zee
unfortunately a restraining order does little to stop the event from happening. only cutting off all contact with the parties and hoping the time factor gets you out of the loop. and of course being prepared to deal with anything intrusive that happens.
by staying involved you keep yourself a target to be part of whatever happens.
as joshua said in war games the only way to win is not play.
Well, mom is never going to disconnect. She's hardwired to mother. Her son and D. are basically 5 year olds that she treats as such.
Mom got to Virginia last night and has already seen D. Her and hubby are cancelling the rental car in preparation to bring D. back. Oh, and she also cancelled one of the new cars D. ordered. Sort of pisses me off because I'm like Ray here. She isn't doing a damn thing to get D. better. Just enabling her.