I was wondering how you were doing the other day. Sorry to hear the bad news. I didn't really follow the original conversation on this very closely, and I'm not sure I understand exactly how things were setup as far as her relationship with the facility, but it sounds like what's happening isn't really for the best, and it's mostly a matter of a bureaucracy ill-equipped to handle a somewhat unique case? That is, it seems like maybe her situation doesn't fit neatly into a rule that otherwise is probably OK most of the time.
That doesn't make it suck less, of course. And I agree, it sucks in particular for people living there. I wish I had something better to say about it. Also when you asked me before I gave a pretty general opinion, not knowing your specifics. I hope it didn't seem like villainizing anyone, because I wasn't intending to do so.